WTMF - aka arborgold is a wimp

[wise_rita]

May 16, 2012 19:13:33 GMT -5 arborgold said:

Boo!

No trashing, burning, or freecycling for me (and I just signed up for an account, damnit!). Girlie JUST got back to me and it looks like I'll be giving her her stuff back tomorrow.

Grumble.

Teach me to do favors for friends.

Pssh, I'll believe that when I see it.

Keep us updated!

[pixy0stix]

I say do it if she's not there exactly when she says she's going to be.

[arborgold]

May 16, 2012 19:42:25 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

I say do it if she's not there exactly when she says she's going to be.

Because I'm a wimp, I sent her one last email a few hours ago saying that if I didn't hear from her by tonight, that I would have to give her things to Goodwill.

About an hour later, I got an email from her saying that she was busy Saturday, busy Sunday, busy Friday night, but that she guessed tomorrow was okay.

I told her that I had to be at a subcommittee hearing on the DC fetal pain bill tomorrow, but that I would bring it by her place once the hearing was over tomorrow evening, so if she's not home, it's getting dumped on her curb.

[ttt]

May 16, 2012 20:07:51 GMT -5 arborgold said:

May 16, 2012 19:42:25 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

I say do it if she's not there exactly when she says she's going to be.

Because I'm a wimp, I sent her one last email a few hours ago saying that if I didn't hear from her by tonight, that I would have to give her things to Goodwill.

About an hour later, I got an email from her saying that she was busy Saturday, busy Sunday, busy Friday night, but that she guessed tomorrow was okay.

I told her that I had to be at a subcommittee hearing on the DC fetal pain bill tomorrow, but that I would bring it by her place once the hearing was over tomorrow evening, so if she's not home, it's getting dumped on her curb.

NO!!!

Don't take it to her house!! Make her come get it from you, at the very least!

[locarb]

Keep/sell what you want, trash the rest and then play dead when she contacts you.

[brookles]

Again, you are WAY TOO NICE, woman.

[arborgold]

May 17, 2012 7:59:05 GMT -5 brookles said:

Again, you are WAY TOO NICE, woman.

I know, i know.

New goal in therapy is to start weeding out those people who make my life worse (e.g. crazybitch), make peace with the fact that some of my friends just aren't quite as empathetic as I would like them to me, and nurture those relationships that make my life better.

Once this stuff is out of my car, crazy lady is one of those people who's being weeded out.

[Deleted]

Eh, at least it will be finally out of your car. What a crazy lady anyway.

[iammalcolmx]

May 17, 2012 0:09:07 GMT -5 @soudesafinado said:

All I have to say is that we teach people how to treat us.

Thank you. Arbor its been MONTHS you are enabling her assholio behavior. You drove all the way to her office and the bitch rolled her damn eyes at you? Why the fuck does this return have to be on her terms? Dump that shit in her office and be done with it.

[ringstrue]

Yes, if she isn't there just leave it on her front stoop.

GL lady!

[ttt]

May 17, 2012 8:13:02 GMT -5 iammalcolmx said:

May 17, 2012 0:09:07 GMT -5 @soudesafinado said:

All I have to say is that we teach people how to treat us.

Thank you. Arbor its been MONTHS you are enabling her assholio behavior. You drove all the way to her office and the bitch rolled her damn eyes at you? Why the fuck does this return have to be on her terms? Dump that shit in her office and be done with it.

This, except

Dump that shit in her office and be done with it.

[cookiemdough]

At this point you have a time to meet up. Yes it would have been preferable for her to come get it, but I wouldn't bother changing the plans now even though she doesn't deserve your consideration. Now if you get there tonight and she is not there, leave it no matter what.

[arborgold]

GUESS WHO HAS A CLEAN CAR!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fuck yeah! No more shit in my backseat. SOOOOOO nice to have my car back. Taking it in for a free oil change and free detailing tomorrow, so yay!

[basilosaurus]

Please tell me it's clean b/c of curbside freecycle and/or bonfire.

[arborgold]

May 17, 2012 19:48:01 GMT -5 basilosaurus said:

Please tell me it's clean b/c of curbside freecycle and/or bonfire.

Sorry, Sibil. I dropped it off at her house.

But I had to have scored at least a few karma points for NOT lighting it on fire, right? Right?

[cookiemdough]

Did she say anything?

Glad you have your car back!

[arborgold]

May 17, 2012 19:52:02 GMT -5 cookiemdough said:

Did she say anything?

Glad you have your car back!

I was kinda hoping for a "thanks," but, um, nope. She just grabbed her stuff and went inside. Superhappyfuntimes.

[cookiemdough]

Well that sucks. But it is almost a good thing she was such a jerk. It will make it easier for you to not be "the nice guy" towards people who don't appreciate you.