Wow. Some of the crap on that board would have been highly flameworthy back in my day. And instead, they're all rainbows and unicorns and hugs.
Suggestion that someone ask their BM to chow down on laxatives to fit into her dress? A gentle, "Golly gee, that sounds dangerous. I could never ask my friend to do something potentially unhealthy."
Even on Etiquette, the suggestion of uninviting BMs after a reduction in guest count is actually met with "Some people say that the guest to wedding party ratio should be such-and-such..."
I wonder what really does get flamed over there these days. "I'm not so sure I want a pretty princess day." "ZOMG! Kill her! Stab her with rainbow-colored unicorn horns for her treasonous words!!!!"
I don't know which was funnier: "Those bitter old hags are a bunch of meanies!" or assuming whatever they did at their weddings is okay, in this post having a third of the guests stand during the ceremony.