eav2c - I just realized I royally screwed up your name in the last post lol.
I totally understand the lost feeling! It's such big decisions and it's hard not having been through it before, and wanting to make the right decision for your child. I think having everyone share their experiences has really helped me wade through it all. Being able to bounce ideas off other moms who are going through the same thing and seeing what they're doing has helped me tremendously so it goes both ways!