Take you friggin car keys back tonight when he walks in the door! Do not let him take your car. You do realize he is doing this so you can not go anywhere!!!!
Get your shit get in your car and drive to NJ you can stay with me for as long as you need!
Take you friggin car keys back tonight when he walks in the door! Do not let him take your car. You do realize he is doing this so you can not go anywhere!!!!
Get your shit get in your car and drive to NJ you can stay with me for as long as you need!
This, 100%.
My niece had a husband who did something similar. He would also take his car to work, but was always "working" on her car and it was never operable.
Post by starrieskies on Jul 1, 2015 17:26:29 GMT -5
SwimDeep this is a time when it's completely ok and necessary to be 100% selfish. Do what YOU need to do for you, not for him.
The book that gault recommended is fantastic, it really is. I've suggested it to several people and I really encourage you to get a copy. Buy one if you can. That way you can take notes in it and highlight for easy reference. I predict it will leave you with goosebumps the first time you read it.
You've gotten some great advice in this thread, and I don't have much else to add but more hugs. This is hard now, but it can be so much better! Feel free to pm me if you need anything!
Well...I have my car. I drove out to a park for a very long walk. Checked out an apartment complex that would be a great location but is way over my budget.
Came home and ran into my MIL and SIL and had a very nice, long talk with them.
Therapy appointment might not happen. She called to let me know she'd been called into an emergency (she also works at an emergency room)...so that's up in the air tonight.
I couldn't sleep last night, so I took a xanax (and then I took five more). Parts of me are doing great. Other parts of me are in the pits.
ETA: I told my SIL about the xanax (because she's been on it before) and she told me it gave her crazy mood swings...might explain some things.
SwimDeep I'm glad to hear you have your car back. I hope you're still able to see your therapist. Also, no more on the Xanax. I don't know how many mg each pill is, but taking 6 is way too many. I'm glad you told someone. Please don't take that many ever again.