Nico has done it this time!

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OK I went into Nico's closet for something and I found something I'm sure he didn't want me to find.
He is at work and I texted him and told him to cancel all plans, that I am cancelling his insurance (car), and that his computer is gone.

I'm so upset, unfortunately not surprised.

Stefan is away, and I'm really upset.

He has tried (nico) to call and text me back but I am not answering!

[broc]

Ohshit, what happened?

[BettyBookWorm]

What is it?!

[fussbucket]

Ughhh, I'm sorry mags.

[pinkplasticdoll]

oh man I am sorry mags.

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I'm so glad he is at work because I would seriously kill him right now.
I guess its a good thing i found it while he is at work!

[beebeeeater]

OMG I am DYING to know what it is! Do tell us mags!

[BettyBookWorm]

May 16, 2012 15:14:24 GMT -5 mags said:

I'm so glad he is at work because I would seriously kill him right now.
I guess its a good thing i found it while he is at work!

I can't take it...what is it? A gun? Drugs? Nudie mags?

[imoan]

Not my perfect little Nico!

I'm guessing bong or some sort of drug paraphernalia. I think Mags would be grossed out by porn, but not angry.

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Porn I could deal with...
Guns I think I'd call the cops...

I found a huge bottle of vodka...about 1/3 rd gone.

[gault]

Sorry Mags Time to be a kickass parent, literally.

You know you've left us in the lurch, what did you find?

ETA: oop

[imoan]

I think in this situation, I'd be more upset that my son was so fucking stupid that he couldn't manage to effectively hide a bottle of vodka. Drinking I can forgive. Stupidity...?

[So_Fetch]

Ugh! That sucks. good call on the not answering his calls/texts. If I were him, that would freak me out the most! good luck!

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He just texted me again..."please answer me"

Fuck you douche!

[Deleted]

I'm not forgiving drinking at 17...especially for someone who just got his license!

[Chirp]

May 16, 2012 15:21:03 GMT -5 mags said:

I found a huge bottle of vodka...about 1/3 rd gone.

My thought was drugs or alcohol. Little shit was smart enough to go for vodka too... odorless and undetectable.

Good luck. Oh, and keep the power cords separate from whatever you take away. A co-irker does the same thing with her kids. They find the computer when she goes to work and put everything back before she gets home. She started keeping the power cords in her purse so even if they find the computer, they're useless.

[imoan]

May 16, 2012 15:24:34 GMT -5 mags said:

I'm not forgiving drinking at 17...especially for someone who just got his license!

I'm not saying you should forgive it... I'm just saying that I'd be so angry that he was so fucking dumb.

[fussbucket]

Kid's got to have some cojones to pull that on Sheriff Mags' watch.

He deserves whatever punishment you deem fit to hand down, but just remember that almost all of us pulled stupid shit we knew was wrong/against the rules in HS, and we all turned out fine, better than fine even. So will your Nico. Because he has a great mom who's looking out for him.

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srs...itls locked up...and we get home same time...he goes to school with me and comes gome with me

[imoan]

May 16, 2012 15:26:51 GMT -5 fussbucket said:

Kid's got to have some cojones to pull that on Sheriff Mags' watch.

He deserves whatever punishment you deem fit to hand down, but just remember that almost all of us pulled stupid shit we knew was wrong/against the rules in HS, and we all turned out fine, better than fine even. So will your Nico. Because he has a great mom who's looking out for him.

This. I know you're disappointed in him... but this isn't super fucked up behavior for a teenager. It's normal (stupid) teenager bullshit. I'm not saying he shouldn't be in trouble... but I don't it's saying anything about the path he's going down or anything.

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I know I've been there...i was a wild ass teenager...but Nico does not have good decision making skills as it is, he has his meds for ADHD and, he is not known for his wise choices.
I worry about him all the time as it is and I'm not dealing with a "normal" teen here.
I wish I was! lol

[fussbucket]

Lol I don't think there's any such thing as a normal teen, but normal teen behavior? Of course. What % of kids have experimented with alcohol by the time they graduate HS? A very high number I'm sure. Now, if he were assaulting young women or setting fire to cats, that's a way different story.

Maybe you should ask him what he thinks you found. Tell him for each wrong (but further incriminating) answer he gives, you will be adding on more punishment.

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He knows exactly what I found!

[BettyBookWorm]

May 16, 2012 15:44:32 GMT -5 mags said:

He knows exactly what I found!

ouch busted. So busted. His ass is grass.

[beebeeeater]

Yikes I thought you were going to say you found something mega. I don't think a bottle of vodka is a rare find in a 17 year old's room. Not that you should be happy about it, just that I thought maybe he had a dead hooker in his closet propped up with a pillowcase full of blow.

[Muddled]

I'm sorry, Mags. I would be mad too.
Somebody's gonna be kissing your ass for a while!

[imoan]

I know exactly how Nico feels right now, and I wouldn't trade places for the world. I was a good kid, but there was NOTHING worse than knowing your mom is mad, you're caught out and you still don't know what for. Coming home is like forcing yourself to walk off the side of a cliff.

[alexisanna44]

Mags, I love your reaction, it's pretty much what I would do in this same situation. I was an awesome teenager and will expect my kids to make equally good decisions. I also agree with imoan, what a dumbass for keeping it in his closet. I'm not sure how long the punishment would go on, but a newly licesed teen certainly doesn't need a car if they're drinking.

[margarita]

Damn. I would not want to be Nico right now!

Sorry Mags.

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I do understand he is a teen....like i said i was AWFUL as a teen, but I had my head screwed on pretty srtaight otherwise....Nico just doesnt make good choices about a lot of things and thinks he is untouchable.
Danilo did shit, and Gianna does shit...but i do not worry about them nearly as much because they are not dumb asses like he is!
I am not naive when it comes to what teens do...hell i have 3 and work with them all day long...but i do not need any extra worries when it comes to Nico.