Thanks guys. @starry he was really excited on Tues but had a realistic view of things. We are both bummed but not crying or anything. It's been a strange week!
Oh also I ran the numbers for 2 in daycare/preschool and yeah, still not making enough working PT to cover that. So we need to look at our budget again and do some planning. If I SAH or keep working, adjustments need to be made.