And I feel bad for the guy. Stpete has never said a bad word about him that I've seen. This is not a "dump the bastard already!" situation; they've just grown apart or something. I can't blame him for looking for answers about a breakup that he apparently doesn't want.
I just posted something similar in the poll. It's devastating to lose your spouse. You are desperate for answers they might not even be able to give you. So seeking that doesn't make him a bad person. And being hurt when you see something like that when you still have hope could be very painful.
Why doesn't anyone feel bad for her DH? He caught her cheating and she moved out and now he reads on a public message board that she is making out people from a family wedding party.
Does no one remember this? I bet this is the guy he caught her with.
How dare you bring that up? My dad left me and my mom alone when I was very little... and my entire life I've been hating on men because THEY HAVE PENISES AND THAT'S NOT FAIR!