Honestly, thank you for this post. I've been feeling so guilty for my insane out of control subconscious for months now. I'm not acting on anything (obviously), but the thoughts will NOT go away.
Mmm, more like the words pop into my head, like "penis", while they're talking to me. Then I can't stop hearing it in my head, and I want to look down, and it's taking all of my effort to not stare at their pants. It's not common, thank god, but it has happened. THEN, I'm all, "They KNOW." and I turn red, and I'm certain they know that I want to see their wiener.
Mmm, more like the words pop into my head, like "penis", while they're talking to me. Then I can't stop hearing it in my head, and I want to look down, and it's taking all of my effort to not stare at their pants. It's not common, thank god, but it has happened. THEN, I'm all, "They KNOW." and I turn red, and I'm certain they know that I want to see their wiener.
Dammit, Scotty. Now this is exactly what's going to happen next time I see this guy.
The WORST is when you lock eyes with the person and for a split second, it seems like everyone is on the same page in the sex thoughts department. It's not as if you can actually ask, "Are you thinking what I'm thinking?" and yet it feels pretty much like they are... This is one of the reasons I'm glad my skin is brown. My face gets hot in these moments so I imagine it would turn red if it could LOL
I have not immediately thought about sex, but I have met some people where I thought OMG YOU ARE SO ATTRACTIVE I CAN'T STOP STARING AT YOU. This was yoga dude at my work. He had a man bun.
The WORST is when you lock eyes with the person and for a split second, it seems like everyone is on the same page in the sex thoughts department. It's not as if you can actually ask, "Are you thinking what I'm thinking?" and yet it feels pretty much like they are... This is one of the reasons I'm glad my skin is brown. My face gets hot in these moments so I imagine it would turn red if it could LOL
Yes! This has only happened one time in last several years. I usually have to get to know someone before I have sexual feelings about them (lol, I know, it's just how I am!) But it happened one time with a guy at a park. It was like instant sexual chemistry.
I always wonder if this is some cool human chemistry thing, and the other person feels it too. I prefer to think of it that way, rather than me just horndogging on some randoms.