Everything. I can do whatever i want, whenever i want with literally no regard for anyone else. I can go food shopping and only buy yogurt, ice cream, almond milk and cheese. I dont have to see the new star wars movie!!!!!! I got a new bed and sleep in the middle. The tv isnt on ALL the time. I can go on and on and on
Lots of things! Although it's been awhile since I was married.
I love that no one is trying to manipulate me and hold me back. I really have reached this amazing point in my life where I feel like the sky is the limit. There's no telling how great things will be and there's no cap in my career or where P and I are headed.
Feeling like I finally have some financial freedom. I'm taking P to DisneyWorld in the spring. I'm also house hunting. And it feels amazing to do that on my own!
Not walking on eggshells.
Not feeling like I'm going to intimidate someone with personal success.
Raising P with the morals I feel are best.
Living a real and honest life instead of pretending.
Post by redshoejune on Nov 15, 2015 11:54:47 GMT -5
Spending time in my house alone because I'm alone and not because he's there and ignoring me.
Knowing that when I get home no one will yell at me (there were a lot of days when I didn't want too cine home because I knew he would have gotten himself worked up about something while I was gone).
Post by glitzyglow on Nov 15, 2015 12:49:20 GMT -5
Having everything in its place. My exH used to unload the dishwasher and stick shit anywhere and it drove me NUTS. He claimed he didn't know where stuff went...dude, you live here, too. Where do you get it from when you use it? I never miss that and love knowing where all my dishes/bakeware/silverware is at all times. He also used to take dishes to his car and leave it in there. I'd notice that bowls, spoons, etc., were missing and he'd casually be like, "Must be in my car." OMG, rage. Bring your shit inside!
I never have to watch anything I don't want to. Goodbye History Channel...you suck.
Having dreams that are bigger and more me than when I was married.
Finding out who I am and liking the process of discovery.
Sleeping alone Hanging out with friends Being on my own schedule Spending my money how I want/not being guilt tripped about spending or how much money I make Being me