I'm on my phone right now so I can't say much, but I do want to say I think you've done the right thing in asking him to leave. Consequences are extremely important.
The last time I drank, the consequence was that I slept on the couch for three nights. That really hit home to me, and forced me to see how close I was to losing everything I loved and wanted in my life. Again, (((hugs))) Stay strong for both you and your daughter!
Aww, big hugs to you. I think you made the right decision to give yourselves some space. He needs to get sober for himself, however. If he tries to get sober for anything other than his own personal well-being, it won't work. Hoping that this might be his wakeup call. I'm glad you posted and please let us know how things are going! (((hugs to you and DD)))