Somebody remind me that I don't need to buy any Easter presents for J. Just set aside 5 gifts for Easter, because we already have a bunch of toys earmarked from us and from Santa, and I don't want him getting too overwhelmed.
I'm going to be a brat. The ILs opened a 529 for DS without running it by us first. I'd much rather they contribute to the 529 that we set up because distributions from grandparents 529s are counted as student income and affect financial aid. I know I should just be grateful.
So they just had your kids SSN?
Transfer of ownership is possible if they are willing.
They must have gotten it from my H, and of course he didn't ask why they wanted it.
J is yelling "all done" from his crib, but I'm not all done enjoying alone time. And he's hardly napped since we were out late. Ugh, child. Go to sleep.
Post by starburst604 on Dec 12, 2015 16:31:49 GMT -5
We have a holiday party to go to tonight, and I'm using a non-family sitter for the first time. She's a high school senior who works at our daycare after school and is often hanging with DD when I pick her up. I was thrilled to find an option for when family isn't available, but as it approaches I'm getting nervous. Putting her to bed is a little different than just playing, and she's been difficult to get to sleep the past few nights. Now my mind is all "YOU DONT KNOW THIS PERSON, WHAT IF SHE SHAKES YOUR BABY!?!" I hope I'm able to enjoy the party and not worry to much. It will just be for a few hours.
Yeah, she's a mess. And I never engage her, so I have all these things I want to say to her in my head, but they're all hateful, so I don't say them. I'm really trying here. lol
I do the same thing but I am so damn close to cracking.
Today I did. And now I'm at home wishing I could drink heavily. It's probably good that I'm pregnant and can't. lol
I do the same thing but I am so damn close to cracking.
Today I did. And now I'm at home wishing I could drink heavily. It's probably good that I'm pregnant and can't. lol
Sorry your MIL is an a-hole, too.
Solidarity hugs.
Today she told the baby "well I'm glad your mommy didn't keep you from me like your brother". Ds1 was taking a nap and I wasn't waking him to say bye to her when she stopped by on her way out of town.
I'm progressively more upset She didn't like the fancy tapas dinner I made & spent $170 on for the 7 of us either. So FREAKING done