Post by estrellita on Feb 12, 2016 21:22:50 GMT -5
Lurker here.. a friend of mine's FB was taken down after she passed away. I contacted FB to have it put back up so we could get pictures off of it and they did for a short time. This was almost 10 years ago and not exactly the same, but I think they would be willing to help. Sorry you're dealing with this
I wish we could all just sweep you away and take a side trip to make a visit and man forget the nickels I have loonies and toonies. My heart hurts so bad for you karma and J as well. ((( hugs)))
Even if she has legitimate beef with you, attacking you on an memorial page to your husband is just shameful. And then she texts you to rub it in? I'm glad you are keeping your son away from such hateful people.
I am so sorry that you have to go through this on top of your loss and all their other shenanigans. They are horrible people and your husband would be disgusted by his family's actions. If I knew anyone who acted this heinously to someones widow, I would be seething fire at them for this level of disrespect.
You are an amazing person to still be rising above all of this regarding what goes on his gravestone. I truely admire your strength right now. I dont know that I could hold it together as well as you have been doing for J. You are a strong and wonderful mom! Don't ever forget that.
These are truly disgusting people. I'm sorry you're being forced into dealing with them. If you can afford it, I'd ask your attorney to send them a short and sweet "do not toy with me, I hope you shit your pants in fear" letter.
i wonder what would happen if you informed your FIL that you were trashed and then deleted from the fb page...since he's the one who has been throwing around all of this suing nonsense.
look, i'm going to tell you something that will probably get me flamed and the absolute last thing i want to do is upset you further, but maybe losing access to that page is for the best, karma. facebook is not real. those memories, those pictures, that life that is portrayed on facebook are not real. you HAVE what's real. you have the life you built together and the pictures and the memories and the perfect little person you two made. maybe think about it as being one step closer to being free of those horrible people. it was their direct route to smashing your heart over and over and over. now you can control what kind of communication you allow from them. you're closer to free than you were yesterday.
Post by karmasabiotch on Feb 13, 2016 9:21:01 GMT -5
FB deleted the post. I'm hoping to get back on the page so I can get copies of some memories and then I'm shutting the page down. I think I'm also just going to stay off Facebook for a while because I have no idea now who's keeping track of my posts that could be reporting back.
I'm also not going to the cemetary today to order the stone because right now I can't imagine adding anything about his family to it which I still know is the right thing so I'm going to give myself a chance to calm down first.