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It's been a long time since we did one of these and there are a few new people around too.

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?


2.  How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?


3.  Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?


4.  Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? 


6.  Apple or android?


7. Cats or dogs?


8.  3 positive adjectives about yourself.

GO.......

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Mar 14, 2016 21:35:21 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

It's been a long time since we did one of these and there are a few new people around too.

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?  Right now, girl scout cookies!  In general, I love chocolate.


2.  How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?  Back in spring of 2012


3.  Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?  I am much more relaxed now.  


4.  Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?  Since I'll be starting a new job, I'm not sure when I'll get some vacation time.  Most likely I'll take a ride to see my mom for a weekend at the beach.


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? wallet, phone, keys.  And usually concealer/foundation, mascara and brow pencil.  I don't know how I lived without eyebrow makeup before!!!


6.  Apple or android?  Apple. 


7. Cats or dogs? I have 2 cats, but I love me some doggies too.  


8.  3 positive adjectives about yourself.  Smart, funny, caring 

GO.......

[pandora]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?
Seafood...these days, ice cream once in a while though (baby!)

2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?
About 10 years ago or so now.

3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?
I'm so much stronger now and have a much fuller life...and best of all, baby!

4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?
Just plans to have a healthy baby and once I'm recovered to get out and enjoy the nice weather.

5. Item(s) you can't leave home without?
Water and a snack. Such an exciting life these days, LOL.
Now reading yours, keys. I'll need to get back home at some point. Yup, phone, too. Eh, I've left without a wallet before and just stuck the metro card & CC in my pocket.

6. Apple or android?
Android

7. Cats or dogs?
All, I love them all!!! Keep me out of the shelter because I'd take them all home!!


8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself.
I have no idea. Smart, fun loving, diligent

[3dogdays]

Mar 14, 2016 21:35:21 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

It's been a long time since we did one of these and there are a few new people around too.

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence? Right now it's smart food popcorn or ice cream.


2.  How long ago did you begin your starting over journey? A little over a month since I found out.


3.  Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey? I no longer have to do his laundry or make his lunch everyday.


4.  Any vacation plans for the spring/summer? None so far


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? Definitely my cellphone 


6.  Apple or android? Apple all the way


7. Cats or dogs? Dogs. I took one of my 3. I miss my other boys.


8.  3 positive adjectives about yourself. These are hard for me right now. Most people tell me I'm strong though I don't feel it. I'm good at my job. I have a beautiful super smart little girl.

GO.......

[redredwine]

Mar 14, 2016 21:41:29 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

Mar 14, 2016 21:35:21 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

It's been a long time since we did one of these and there are a few new people around too.

it's been a while since I've been on this board, but thought I'd pop in! I don't recognize that many people anymore, which is why I haven't posted in a long time! I miss lots of folks who no longer post (but am glad some of the originals still post, including my fave @pdx18! - this board brought us together!) 

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?   ALL THE SNACKS. My favorite is a local popcorn company who makes bomb popcorn...my fave flavor is Black Truffle Sea Salt. OMG. 


2.  How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?  August 2010. LONG time ago now! Still have a little PTSD from it and wonder if it will ever fully go away. It's so worth it though. Life is wonderful and all the hurt got me to a wonderful place. 


3.  Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?  SO MUCH!!! I did alot of "self care" and self work early on. I became more comfortable iwth myself, I've learned to communicate SO much better and as a result, developed much healthier relationships which ultimately led to my best relationship yet. 

4.  Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?  HAWAII!! And backpacking for a weekend in the Cascades with the husband and some friends. 


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? Phone. Chapstick. Glasses. 


6.  Apple or android?  Apple for phone, but PC for computer. 


7. Cats or dogs? DOGS!!! We have two and I've been on a work trip for 2 + week (will be 3 total) and I miss them terribly. 


8.  3 positive adjectives about yourself.  Caring, Adaptable, Friendly

GO.......

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redredwine!!! Hi!!! Haven't seen you in forever.  I miss everyone that used to post here.  I've migrated over to ML because it's more active there.  Stick around!

[katieido]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence? Fancy cheese


2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?

After a lot of turmoil throughout 2013, a few false start overs during the 2013/2014 winter, I separated in may 2014. My divorce was finalized last week.


3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?

Many things. My emotional health, my anger and resentment has dissipated, I've found a really wonderful new job, I've become more adept at managing single parenthood/full time work/running my home.


4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?

I haven't planned one yet. I Have to travel for work in early summer, but i really should consider a trip.


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without?

My keys, purse, phone, kid

6. Apple or android?
Android

7. Cats or dogs?
Cats

8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself.

Creative, witty, dedicated

[redredwine]

Mar 14, 2016 22:17:49 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

redredwine !!! Hi!!! Haven't seen you in forever.  I miss everyone that used to post here.  I've migrated over to ML because it's more active there.  Stick around!

Aw, thanks blueyes! I'll try! 
I don't have as much time on here as I used to, so I usually just stick to boards like MM or H&G when I have question, etc. 
I'm on a work trip now where I have some downtime, so I'm trying to catch up! 

[1confused1]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence? I'm on WW right now, so not a lot. I do always save points for wine.


2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?  Started in early 2012


3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?  I learned that I can support myself and my kids with no financial help from xh, it was incredibly empowering to figure that out.  I also have impressed myself with the things I can do by myself (bought my first car, BBQ, fix things around the house).    


4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?  Lake Tahoe for 2 weeks


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without?  My phone


6. Apple or android?  Android


7. Cats or dogs? Dogs, I want one so bad but my daughter is terrified


8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself.  Independent, strong, caring

[bl]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?
Really good chocolate or a new fancy beer

2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?
End of 2013

3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?
I have really learned to focus on the positive and let go of the things I cannot control in my life, and it has made me a much happier person.

4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?
Me and the bf are going to a big rock festival in NC and are making a road trip out of it.

5. Item(s) you can't leave home without?
phone, some kind of lip product, and either key card for the apartment gym/pool or my keys if I am leaving the complex.

6. Apple or android?
Apple

7. Cats or dogs?
I only have cats right now, but definitely both.

8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself.
Kind, loyal, and fun

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[bg]

Mar 14, 2016 21:35:21 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

It's been a long time since we did one of these and there are a few new people around too.

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?

Ice cream. Peppermint stick if available.


2.  How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?

We had a loooong separation process but the sh*t hit the fan in November.


3.  Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?

I'm more self confident. Usually.


4.  Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?

France!!!


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? 

Keys, wallet, phone


6.  Apple or android?

Apple

7. Cats or dogs?

Both please!


8.  3 positive adjectives about yourself.

Kind, persistent, resilient.

GO.......

[greysgirl]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence? So many things, right now I'm on a Smartfood kick


2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey? I got divorced in 2012, I ended a 3.5 year relationship over the summer.


3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey? I realized that taking care of myself is not only not selfish, it's a necessity.


4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer? My family is going to Maine for a long weekend


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? My phone


6. Apple or android? Apple


7. Cats or dogs? I have had cats in the past, I like dogs too though


8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself. Reliable, funny, loyal

[Eureka1984]

Mar 14, 2016 21:35:21 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

It's been a long time since we did one of these and there are a few new people around too.

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence? Right now my favorite snack is popsicles! Simple easy and fruity!


2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey? January 2014 is when we separated and I moved out.

3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey? I am way more observant and stronger. I have learned to live on my own and pay my own bills.


4.Any vacation plans for the spring/summer? This week we are on spring break and I plan to make it to the beach, also in the summer I plan on taking a break and big vacation for myself!


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without?
Keys and cell

6. Apple or android? Apple


7. Cats or dogs? Both


8.3 positive adjectives about yourself. Strong, funny, cute

[doglove]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?
Definitely cupcakes/cake. 




2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?
Almost two years ago this month is when it officially began, officially separated July 2014. 




3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?
My self confidence and ability to be okay with the person I am. 




4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?
I have a half marathon/few day trip planned to the Outerbanks in April with my pup. 




5. Item(s) you can't leave home without?
Purse, phone, wallet, and glasses.  




6. Apple or android?
Apple. 




7. Cats or dogs?
Dogs! 




8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself.
Compassionate, Strong, and Determined. 

[housewife]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?
At the moment - BBQ chips and raisinets.

2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?
We separated at the beginning of January 2016. It started for me in 2015 when I realized I wasn't the sole reason for my unhappiness in life.

3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey? My confidence has skyrocketed. I feel like all those cliche's and motivational quotes I rolled my eyes at my whole life are totally awesome.


4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer? I am going to NC to visit my Mom Friday and then headed to Philly with a friend Tuesday! I'm also taking the kids on a TBD day trip for my 30th birthday.


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? Cellphone and my jug of water.


6. Apple or android? Apple, though work provides my phone and it's an android.


7. Cats or dogs? GIVE ME ALLL THE ANIMALS. XH has custody of our dogs (who are 110% anti cat), so I'm going to get me a sweet old apartment cat.


8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself. Ugh this is the job interview question I always have a tough time with.

[pantsoffdanceoff]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence? - Good old fashioned regular Coke, Ben & Jerry's Half Baked or Xochitl Tortilla Chips (specifically the spicy one)


2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey? - End of 2012


3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey? - I didn't realize how much I let someone else control my life, thoughts and actions and now I'm 100% in charge of me.


4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer? - YES! May - Boston, July - tourist around Florida with friend from Australia and then a weekend in New Orleans with 2 girlfriends I met on my Italy trip last year; September - NYC for the Adele concert; November - Boston


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? - Phone, and lately because of breakouts my Nars Creamy Radiant Concealer


6. Apple or android? - Apple


7. Cats or dogs? - DOGS!!


8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself. - Content, thoughtful, funny

[jigsy]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence? - I love salty things. The "snacks" I picked up at the grocery store yesterday were green olives and pickles.


2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey? - We're coming up on two years for me. April 2014.


3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey? - I am a lot more self-assured. I like who I am. I have also gotten better with going with the flow - planning your life out leads to missing other opportunities.


4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer? - A couple - May - Bachelorette party in Palm Springs, July - Wedding weekend in San Diego, girls weekend in Seattle. August/Spetember - London and somewhere else in Europe, I think maybe Paris.


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? - Phone, keys...seems pretty boring


6. Apple or android? - Android


7. Cats or dogs? - Dogs, though cats are ok...less work at least, lol.


8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself. - Witty, Caring, Smart

[Linie]

Mar 14, 2016 21:35:21 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence? Wine and cheese


2.  How long ago did you begin your starting over journey? Starting having doubts in Jan 2013; wanted to leave in August 2013, left in July 2014


3.  Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey? No more walking on egg shells


4.  Any vacation plans for the spring/summer? A solo trip to Sicily in May


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? Phone, keys, handkerchief


6.  Apple or android? I-phone/I-touch but PC computer


7. Cats or dogs? I'm not a fan of pets


8.  3 positive adjectives about yourself. Empathy, curiosity, fun

GO.......

[jojoandleo]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?

Everything. I am a snacker. I mainly eat sweets. I also LOVE popcorn. If I had to pick one, it would be ice cream. There are times I crave it to the point I have to go buy it if I don't have any in the house. It's like a coke addiction but legal.


2.  How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?

a long ass time ago. 2007? 2008? I don't remember. It was before the SO board existed. I posted a bit on TIP when it first happened, then lurked. I came back to The Nest when I got married and just really loved the SO girls and board and just stayed.


3.  Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?

My ability to trust myself. XFI fucked with my head to the point I thought I was crazy and wrong. I didn't trust myself. I found so much proof he was cheating and STILL doubted myself. Still believed his obviously bullshit lies because I couldn't trust myself.


4.  Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?

Bachelorette party in Colorado. I have no control over this one and not idea what it will entail. She's not a huge partier, but she enjoys drinking. She also likes nature and hiking, so we will see.


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? 

My phone, chapstick, and my kindle. I hate not having something to read if there is a lull. Waiting in a lunch line, I read. Waiting for a meeting to start, I read. LOL


6.  Apple or android?

I have an iPhone because I am too lazy to learn how to use a different smart phone.


7. Cats or dogs?

My first pet was a cat, whom I LOVED. But she played fetch and acted more like a dog than Jerry does. So, really I am a dog person.


8.  3 positive adjectives about yourself.

Loyal, hardworking, smart

[bl]

Mar 15, 2016 7:01:45 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

bl, what city is the rock festival in? I've been looking up things for us to do over the summer since we'll be new to NC.

It's in Charlotte by or at the motor speedway.

[Deleted]

Mar 15, 2016 12:56:45 GMT -5 bl said:

Mar 15, 2016 7:01:45 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

bl, what city is the rock festival in? I've been looking up things for us to do over the summer since we'll be new to NC.

It's in Charlotte by or at the motor speedway.

Cool I'm going to check it out. I already got tickets to a beer, bourbon and bbq thing in May.

ETA: I'd probably be interested in Friday, but I'll be working. Oh well.

[glynn]

Mar 14, 2016 21:35:21 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence? PB M&M


2.  How long ago did you begin your starting over journey? May 2015


3.  Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey? Me time. DD2's behavior


4.  Any vacation plans for the spring/summer? If the divorce was done I have a open invite with a XBF for a weekend.


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? Cell


6.  Apple or android? Apple


7. Cats or dogs? None


8.  3 positive adjectives about yourself. Fit,Happy, & Good mother

[elfinia7]

Mar 14, 2016 21:35:21 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

It's been a long time since we did one of these and there are a few new people around too.

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?

My favorite snack is popcorn made on the stovetop.

2.  How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?

July 2015. 

3.  Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?

My self confidence.

4.  Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?

I just got back from a trip to Iceland with a girlfriend.

5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? 

I guess the obvious, like my purse?

6.  Apple or android?

Apple all the way.

7. Cats or dogs?

Cats but I don't have any.

8.  3 positive adjectives about yourself.

Funny
Surprising
Easy Going

[closertofine]

Mar 14, 2016 21:35:21 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

It's been a long time since we did one of these and there are a few new people around too.

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence? Chocolate chip cookies


2.  How long ago did you begin your starting over journey? October 2015


3.  Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey? The tension is gone from my house


4.  Any vacation plans for the spring/summer? Just our family camp week in Ohio. I might do a solo trip in June to a conference, might for to Boulder, CO for a weekend before that to see bff.


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? Phone, wallet, chapstick, keys


6.  Apple or android? Droid


7. Cats or dogs? Dogs


8.  3 positive adjectives about yourself. I'm thoughtful, funny, and usually kind

GO.......

[poptart84]

Mar 14, 2016 21:35:21 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

It's been a long time since we did one of these and there are a few new people around too.

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?
Reeses Peanut butter cups or wavy lays and top the tator

2.  How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?
6 years ago

3.  Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?
I've gotten healthier, ran 5ks, am happier and a better mom to my son

4.  Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?
Heading to Vegas on Saturday

5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? 
Phone and a stretchy monkey in my purse from my son

6.  Apple or android?
Currently have android but I go back and forth forth my love of apple

7. Cats or dogs?
Prefer dog

8.  3 positive adjectives about yourself.
Artistiv, hardworking, creative
GO.......

[Deleted]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?
Oh god everything? Pinot noir and potato chips top the list right now. Oh also the Tour of Italy at the Olive Garden (it's so deliciously american overindulgence)


2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey? August 2010.


3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey? Again everything? But really I'm happy. So much happier.


4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer? Going to DC tomorrow although that's not a vacation technically. Heading to Reno with my dad and step mom for shits and giggles. Hoping to make it to the OC for a friends baby shower as well. Also back to DC in May.


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without?
My phone.


6. Apple or android?
Apple


7. Cats or dogs?
Dogs!


8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself.
Funny, loyal, passionate

[glitzyglow]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?
Ice cream x infinity. Ice cream is my drug of choice. After my exH left, I subsisted off ice cream. Even eating it during the worst time of my life hasn't deterred my love of it. Ice cream + glitzy = together4eva

2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?
Discovered my exH was cheating in the fall of 2010, officially divorced since early 2012. I'd say I really didn't "start over" until our divorce, so 4 years.

3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?
My confidence in myself. I used to be such a shy, timid person. Now I'm outgoing and much braver.

4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?
I'm going to Ohio at the end of this month. I have a lot of people coming to see me this spring. I'm hoping in late spring to maybe make a trek to IL to see a few sites I've always wanted to see. I don't think I'm going to do a big vacation this year, but smaller weekend trips. I hope to get to Memphis, Chattanooga, Asheville, Birmingham, and maybe Knoxville. Kind of a vacation of the local kind.

5. Item(s) you can't leave home without?
Phone, whatever lipstick I'm wearing that day, purse with wallet, keys.

6. Apple or android?
I strongly prefer Android, but my friend gives me his iPhones when he upgrades so I have an Apple.

7. Cats or dogs?
Both. I adore both. I have a cat, but after he passes and I get settled into a place in a few years, I'm getting a dog.

8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself.
Thoughtful, authentic, smart.

[Wanderista]

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?
Good question, my favorites generally involve cheese. I love good cheese. I'm very particular about it. I also like crap like cheesy popcorn or cheez-its if I'm just lounging on the couch. I like sweets sometimes but I actually prefer cheesy or salty snacks. Hmm, indulgence? Let's also count sushi too. Crazy roll doused in mayo? Yes, please.

2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?
Eh, I've never been married. I did have a nasty break up in early 2013 and it did change my perspective on dating and relationships a lot. I grew up a lot. 

3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?
I'm a lot happier. I still have to deal with stressful stuff but I'm in a much better place.

4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?
This is still kind of up in the air. I would like to go to the beach. When, where and how frequently has not been determined yet. I live pretty close to some beaches but might like to also check out something different. Also, I've been invited to a friend's summer house in New England but we'll see. I've had some stuff come up that I'm having to focus on before I can sort out my summer plans.

5. Item(s) you can't leave home without?
My purse, my phone, my car if I need to drive.

6. Apple or android?
I have an iPhone but I'm neutral on this debate. I cracked the screen on my iPhone 5s in the last few months and because I had the Apple insurance, they just gave me a new phone. I went from planning to replace my phone soon to not needing to for a while. 

7. Cats or dogs?
I love both. I'm someone who genuinely loves and sees the benefits of both. I also grew up riding horses so I love those too. I also was around a lot of farm animals as a child due to some farming relatives. I'm an equal opportunity animal lover.

8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself.
Intelligent, Generally Optimistic, Flexible/Adaptive - I have my weaknesses but I'm generally a constructive and ethical person.

[arielroux]

Mar 14, 2016 21:35:21 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

It's been a long time since we did one of these and there are a few new people around too.

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence?

Basically anything involving cheese

2.  How long ago did you begin your starting over journey?

May 2015, so almost a year ago now. Wow.

3.  Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey?

My stress and anxiety levels have decreased dramatically (I actually just finished weaning off my anxiety meds!), and I met someone who actially
makes me feel wonderful.

4.  Any vacation plans for the spring/summer?

Ugh, no. I need to get on that!

5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? 


Chapstick! My debit card. A pair of flip flops (I always keep a pair in my car just in case my shoes start to hurt, lol)


6.  Apple or android?

Apple

7. Cats or dogs?

Dogs!

8.  3 positive adjectives about yourself.

Caring, light-hearted, reliable

GO.......

[esdreturns]

Hi. I'm new here. I've been lurking for a while and figured this is a good post to jump in.

1. What's your favorite snack or indulgence? Ice cream


2. How long ago did you begin your starting over journey? I filed for divorce about 6 months ago, but I've been thinking about it for about 3 years.


3. Tell me something that has improved since you started that journey? I finally just moved out and I feel so free. My house is a lot cleaner now even though I have 2 kids because none of his mess is anywhere.


4. Any vacation plans for the spring/summer? No, unfortunately.


5. Item(s) you can't leave home without? My cell phone!


6. Apple or android? Android


7. Cats or dogs? Cats


8. 3 positive adjectives about yourself. Loyal, caring, loving