I just have to talk to someone

[messykitchen]

So for years we have had problems with my sons father. Big problems. Tonight he showed up and hit him, cops were called, and they still can't find him. We are in a safe place tonight but what then? I am worried. They are supposed to call when he is custody but he is a tricky asshole. This is the first time he has been so violent, normally he is just a complete ass. My son is 17 and says he is ok, but how could he be? He is already in counseling, I just don't know what else to do. I just needed to vent. I am sure this is not over. Court appearances (my fiance was a witness as well and a mandated reporter so he was on the phone with 911 fast), and I don't know what else will happen. 

I am just so sad for my son. he hit my CHILD. The police took pictures of the wounds for evidence and everything.

Sorry for the vent. I needed to let it out. 

[ErinExpat]

I have no advice, but I am so, so sorry.

I am glad you are all safe tonight and I will keep you all in my thoughts.

[themysteriouswife]

I'm going through this with a family member. I'm extremely sorry you have to deal with him. I hope they find him.

[lilac05]

Vent away.

I'm so sorry you & your son are going through this. Sending big hugs to you.

[5thofjuly]

I'm so very sorry. I hope that he's caught soon and that your family can find some peace.

[Deleted]

I'm so sorry. How horrifying and terrible for your son. Does he have a cell phone and do you trust him not to make plans to see his father without your knowledge? If so I would get a restraining order if you don't have one already.

Is your son okay? Does he need to see a doctor?

[killercupcake]

I'm so sorry. Big hugs.

First thing Monday, let your son's school know what happened if they don't already know about his father.

[rosiebear]

Oh gosh, I am just so sorry. Your son is lucky to have you for a mom.

[carrotsmakemefat]

I'm sorry :(

[Monica Geller]

I'm so sorry.

[messykitchen]

He does not have a cell phone unless I give him one for emergencies. He would not call his father, he hated him before this. The school is already on alert from previous incidents, but I will tell them about the new developments. Because he bloodied his face, it's automatic no contact here (if I understand correctly).

It's been hours and they still can't locate him. I don't want him to find us. He is a violent guy and a gun owner and I am so on edge. He hates me more than anything.

[W.T.Faulkner]

I'm so sorry. I'm glad your son has such a wonderful mom.

[calle28]

I don't know what else to say besides I'm sorry, for both you and your son. Your finace is a good man.

[calle28]

*Fiancé

[aussiecrush]

You are an amazing mom and you and your son are in my thoughts. Beyond that, I send hope and wisdom and safety for those charged with finding this scum bag and protecting your family. I hope you have answers soon.

[Alex]

I'm so sorry. I'm glad you are safe.

[mom2twoboys]

I'm so sorry this happened to you and your son. I hope they find that coward who could hit a child and run. He is the scum of the earth.

[messykitchen]

Thank you everyone. Your support means a lot to me.

[frkls]

i am so sorry. please stay safe and keep us posted. i'm praying for you and your son!! huge hugs!!

[pinkeggs]

I am so sorry. That is terrible and frightening. I wish I had advice, but I just have support. Take care.

[frkls]

also, there is a weird thing about teens needing a safe person more than a safe place, if that makes sense. little kids and adults need to feel secure in their environment and teens feel secure in their relationships. no matter what else is going on in his world, having a mom who is his "safe place" means everything. you're doing great.

[sugarbear]

Oh my goodness. I'm so sorry. I hope they find hims soon.

[panicfoot]

Jesus, what a fucking monster. I'm so sorry, messykitchen. I'm so glad he has you as a mom.

[sandyapples]

I'm so sorry.

[thedutchgirl]

I'm so sorry. That's horrifying. I'm glad you are safe tonight, and I hope the police locate and arrest your son's father.

[dellabear]

Oh no, I'm so sorry. I hope they find him ASAP.

[YeahSure]

I'm so sorry. Thoughts and prayers!

[tevagirl]

I'm so sorry. I hope the police find him. Prayers for you and your son. I'm glad you are safe now.

[messykitchen]

He keeps calling me. I keep ignoring him. I wish the police could find him.

[pumpkin]

I'm so sorry you and your family are dealing with this. Hope they find him soon. Glad you guys are safe. You're a good mom and he's lucky to have you.