I really should stop flirting with my friend, but the self-confidence boost I get from it is so nice.
I confess I do this too, and he is married. I know it isn't going anywhere, it just feels nice to flirt
Yea, my friend is also in a relationship. I am friends with his girlfriend (she knows of the flirting so it's not THAT bad). But damn I wish he was single sometimes.... hence why I really should stop.....
I confess I do this too, and he is married. I know it isn't going anywhere, it just feels nice to flirt
Am I the only one who has an issue with this?
I do too....I get that "it's just innocent flirting" but if the shoe were on the other foot, methinks you'd be unhappy with your H flirting with someone else or someone else flirting with him
I do too....I get that "it's just innocent flirting" but if the shoe were on the other foot, methinks you'd be unhappy with your H flirting with someone else or someone else flirting with him
Not to mention the fact that I'm sure that a lot of affairs start with innocent flirting.
I do too....I get that "it's just innocent flirting" but if the shoe were on the other foot, methinks you'd be unhappy with your H flirting with someone else or someone else flirting with him
Not to mention the fact that I'm sure that a lot of affairs start with innocent flirting.
I confess I do this too, and he is married. I know it isn't going anywhere, it just feels nice to flirt
Yea, my friend is also in a relationship. I am friends with his girlfriend (she knows of the flirting so it's not THAT bad). But damn I wish he was single sometimes.... hence why I really should stop.....
Sorry but I disagree. I think it is disrespectful. Would you be okay if someone did this to your SO?
I do too....I get that "it's just innocent flirting" but if the shoe were on the other foot, methinks you'd be unhappy with your H flirting with someone else or someone else flirting with him
Not to mention the fact that I'm sure that a lot of affairs start with innocent flirting.
Spot on! This is all kinds of messed up. It may be innocent to you, but he could be on a straight line path to cheating, or he already is and you can be another side on his divided kid plate.
I confess I do this too, and he is married. I know it isn't going anywhere, it just feels nice to flirt
Am I the only one who has an issue with this?
No, it gave me an "ick" feeling. If someone "innocently" flirted with my H, she would probably lose an appendage, and if he reciprocated, he could very well lose a wife. ESPECIALLY if she was all wishing he was single. Hell to the no. *Z snap*
I took a sick day because I didn't want to go to an IEP meeting with a crazy parent. I slept in, went to lunch, and did a LOT of shopping. To make it a legitimate sick day, I did go for a quick check up visit to my dentist.
I do too....I get that "it's just innocent flirting" but if the shoe were on the other foot, methinks you'd be unhappy with your H flirting with someone else or someone else flirting with him
Not to mention the fact that I'm sure that a lot of affairs start with innocent flirting.
I do too....I get that "it's just innocent flirting" but if the shoe were on the other foot, methinks you'd be unhappy with your H flirting with someone else or someone else flirting with him
Not to mention the fact that I'm sure that a lot of affairs start with innocent flirting.
Which is exactly how my STBXH's started. Innocent flirting with a co-worker.
I confess I do this too, and he is married. I know it isn't going anywhere, it just feels nice to flirt
Yea, my friend is also in a relationship. I am friends with his girlfriend (she knows of the flirting so it's not THAT bad). But damn I wish he was single sometimes.... hence why I really should stop.....
*lurker in*
Actually, it is. This is how a lot of affairs start, and either way, regardless of the fact the GF knows, it still probably makes her uncomfortable. I would know, I had a friend who constantly flirted with my boyfriend, which made him uncomfortable, and even though I knew it was presented as "all fun and games" that still didn't stop me from feeling super icky about it. Enough so that I stopped being friends with her.
Also? I got curious and read your blog. I'm going to be a hugggge bitch here and say you need to cut the crap. *lurker out*
Yea, my friend is also in a relationship. I am friends with his girlfriend (she knows of the flirting so it's not THAT bad). But damn I wish he was single sometimes.... hence why I really should stop.....
Sorry but I disagree. I think it is disrespectful. Would you be okay if someone did this to your SO?
Actually, yes. I was fine with it. My XH would flirt, I would flirt. Within my group of friends, normal. While it seems "wrong" outside of the group, it's pretty normal for many of us and we only flirt with those whom we know it will not be an issue. It ended up coming up in convo this past weekend (as a general thing) and she has said that he she has no issue with it. I still am going to take a step back though from it.
Sorry but I disagree. I think it is disrespectful. Would you be okay if someone did this to your SO?
Actually, yes. I was fine with it. My XH would flirt, I would flirt. Within my group of friends, normal. While it seems "wrong" outside of the group, it's pretty normal for many of us and we only flirt with those whom we know it will not be an issue. It ended up coming up in convo this past weekend (as a general thing) and she has said that he she has no issue with it. I still am going to take a step back though from it.
Good for you. This is just my personal opinion, but when you flirt with someone you know is already attached, you are lowering yourself. On top of that, even if people say "it isn't really an issue" it always can become an issue later on down the line. It doesn't take much for people to get a case of the green eyed monster, warranted or not. So, again, good for you.