I am with auntie that this is an AMAZING wish list that will be very helpful as you push the on the early intervention and school system for resources. This is a medical team that has your back and wants you to get as much as possible for your child. This is GREAT news!
However, you then have to live in a real world. As I have said before, this is a marathon, not a sprint. You don't have to do ALL THE THINGS right away.
I will tell you some things about how we did this. First, we didn't do ABA for the first couple of years. In our state, they follow the TEACCH model and don't do ABA through early intervention or the school system (I hate this, but it is what it is).
We had a nanny and did OT, ST and DT at home until our kid turned 3. Three hours a week, and we only participated some of the time. Once our kid turned 3, she went into an AU classroom. She got ST and OT at school. We also did ST and OT privately before school for 2 years. Then, we decided that the private ST and OT was just too much. She gets what she gets at school. She got 3 years of preK since she was a late birthday. We also did some PT during this time. It was private, but I forget what year it was -- we did about 6 months to work on climbing stairs, etc.
The summer before kindergarten we finally tried ABA. We did 20 hours a week in the summer. We now do 3 hours a week before school (she goes late to school 2 days a week) in our home. We do more hours during school breaks.
I highly recommend seeing if your local Autism Society has parent advocates. A phone call to them will help you understand how these types of recommendations will translate into actual services offered by the early intervention program/school system.