I'm so sorry about your mom. When I lost my dad to cancer 8 years ago, all those first holidays were hard, and then again when we had holidays w/DD and he wasn't there. I can't imagine what it must be like to go through both of those things at once. Hugs!
I'm so sorry friend. I lost my MIL shortly before mothers day 3 years ago, and I won't lie it was tough for J. Be kind to yourself, and do whatever you need to do.
I am so very sorry for your loss and for the especially difficult timing. Know that any emotion you have that day is the right one, whether it's joy, sadness or anything in between. Hugs.
Trying for #3; FET 8/18 -- BFN. Leaving things up to chance for now... After three years, three IVFs, and two FETs, we finally have our miracle babIES!
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your journey with your mom has been a long one and I can't imagine the feelings you must be dealing with. I hope you are able to find closure and joy at this time in your life with Hobbes and the passing of your mom.