Oh you are so not a failure. I'm really sorry you guys are in this situation right now and you have every right to be angry.
Have you consolidated you debt? We just moved things around and switched to a credit card with a much lower interest rate which is saving us a good deal on interest each month. Are there any other monthly expenses you can cut? I'm the queen of cutting bills right now.
I'm so sorry. Do you have catholic charities there? I work with our local chapter (with my students- fundraising) and they have a program that provides money to help people restore utilities. They also have financial counseling for free.
((@jayhawkali)) I missed your OP, but I got the gist and I'm so sorry you're struggling. Please reach out if you need to vent or if we can do anything to help.
Post by laurensmomma on May 12, 2016 20:03:10 GMT -5
Ugh, that really sucks that your husband put you in that situation. I hope he goes to counseling with you and realizes the severity of the situation. Hugs.
Post by unclejesse on May 12, 2016 21:28:52 GMT -5
Dude. Sorry but F him for you having to pawn your ring. And a separate bank account!? Hell to the NO! I am so sorry you're dealing with this, but I would have a very tough time forgiving him over all of this.