Today I finally closed on our new home. I left xh 8 years ago and my dd left him 5 years ago. He wasn't good for us.
We did it.. it was so hard. And continues to be in some ways. Ex: my dds anxiety
But today I signed documents stating I recieve no child support at all and I bought a townhouse I never thought I could do alone.
We got this. We don't need some guy that decides not to participate. We can participate enough for our family. We don't need the "him" in the equation.
I bought my home today. And my dd is proud of us. And I am proud of us.
“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg