I will seriously GBCN if we allow her to come back FOR ENTERTAINMENT. That's gross. Please show me that you are better than that. Or don't, I could use all the time back in my life that I waste here.
I getting PRETTY PISSED OFF at the people who just want her to come back to feed the drama. Seriously guys, this is more than drama.
Post by jeaniebueller on Aug 15, 2016 15:05:15 GMT -5
I know I have been lightheartedly posting gifs throughout, but given what I have gone through in losing a child, she needs to GTFO for trolling a board of grieving parents, I don't care how long ago it was. ESPECIALLY since it seems like she never really showed any remorse or acknowledged the shittiness of what she did. Honestly, that kind of shit is why I stopped posting on the Loss board on TB years ago. There were way too many people who were faking things on that board. Shame on anyone who would do that.
Post by thebreakfastclub on Aug 15, 2016 15:11:04 GMT -5
I agree with the no.
My SIL wrote a blog while my nephew had cancer, and he really did pass away at age 6. It sickens me that there are parasites who are basically feeding off of the real misery of others. I don't think she deserves an audience any longer.
Post by scribellesam on Aug 15, 2016 15:12:03 GMT -5
I vote no. Don't get me wrong, the drama would be delicious, but what she did is too awful (pretending to have a dead kid) to deserve a platform to spew more garbage at us when there are moms here who actually have suffered loss.
I don't care either way, but I am uncomfortable trying to ruin her life by contacting various legal outlets. Maybe she has had substantial mental health treatment and is recovering. It doesn't make it forgivable in any way, but going on a witch hunt for revenge seems wrong too. If she was a daycare provider or something, it would be different.
Post by carolinagirl831 on Aug 15, 2016 15:15:06 GMT -5
I vote yes, only because we could use some drama around here. I mean no one is actually going to be fooled by her now right? I give her no sympathies, just nosy as to what story she will cock up this time!
**Edited After further reading- I feel terrible about the shit she has done. I suppose we should not allow it after all the hurt she has caused.
Post by followyourarrow on Aug 15, 2016 15:15:48 GMT -5
I know I don't actually go here, but I'd vote no. I remember her posting about "losing her daughter" back on the loss board on TN. It's been 7 years, but man, it's brought some stuff up, how you pour your heart and soul into trying to help someone else with their grieving all while going through your own grief.
I don't think any explanation she can offer would be satisfying at this point. It will be hard to believe, and even if it's the truth, it won't make things better. I just hope she gets the help she needs and I hope this doesn't put anyone off of helping other people who really do lose a child because I know I couldn't have made it without that group of ladies for the first year.
I don't care either way, but I am uncomfortable trying to ruin her life by contacting various legal outlets. Maybe she has had substantial mental health treatment and is recovering. It doesn't make it forgivable in any way, but going on a witch hunt for revenge seems wrong too. If she was a daycare provider or something, it would be different.
I actually agree with this, mostly because if her company tanks, I worry for her son.
Post by jeaniebueller on Aug 15, 2016 15:27:02 GMT -5
Honestly, I hope some of the people who are excited about the potential drama are reading these responses, because its making me really
And before I get called out for my hypocrisy, it's one thing to be excited about the outing of a nasty person, but another to continue to feed the troll after it's been proven she is awful.
There is no reasonable explanation she could personally offer that would make it all ok. Unless maybe she was abducted by aliens and has just now returned to her body.
Even the AMA a few months ago was likely full of all kinds of lies. So, unless she's a newly changed woman as of an hour ago. Nope.
Trolling GBCN is one thing. Getting people to send you money to bail out your dog. Fine. But she chose the most vulnerable, hurting group of people to troll. She invented everyone's worst nightmare to garner sympathy and money.
I just don't want her son's only support person to be unable to make a living. He has no one else and is already pretty messed up
pugz i'm afraid you are giving her far to much credit as to what her situation actually is at this point. She obviously is mentally ill or a sociopath and her son is going to have far worse issues than her cookie business failing.. who knows what his dad's involvement actually is... we can't believe anything she tells us about her life anymore.
I do not mean to be coming across as a defender. Since the beginning, I have not been her biggest fan. But the only way I can wrap my brain around someone inventing a DEAD CHILD is to believe she is severely mentally ill. I don't want her back here, I am disgusted and horrified by what she did, but going after her just feels...pointless. If I found out anyone here was a catfish, I wouldn't call their boss, unless they'd posted about committing crimes at work.
I think I primarily feel this way because her FB posts exactly match with her posts here, so I am hoping for her son's same that she is now legit and recovering.
That said, if I missed more recent things, ignore my post.
yeah I mean I don't know what's true and what's not. I just worry about that kid, you know? I mean, I worried about him before too, lol. I think he's gonna need a lot of therapy in his future.
I wonder if her BFF in Denver knows about her past.
but I am totally a bleeding heart, "benefit of the doubt." person and it can be one of my weaknesses for sure. I own that
also worry a bit about blowing shit up on social media only to have things linked back here somehow.
If she's on an un-friending fury, I don't think she's feeling much remorse. She *had* other platforms to apologize or explain or whatever, if that's what she really wanted to do.
I have no problem with her business being reported to the authorities for illegal stuff, that I am fine with. I guess I was just envisioning a GBCN attack on her FB page and the like. I don't know why that feels different to me. In the end I don't really care about her as much as I do her son. On the off chance that she wasn't lying about her husband, she may well be all he has.
Yeah, on the board. But we don't go in troves to small business owners Facebook pages and post nasty things unrelated to the business itself.
She trolled loss boards, and some the members on this very board who had losses, while pawning her lactation cookies. Then bragged about the profits, on this board,filled the board with vacation photos (likely with said profits), and bought a shitton of LLR (again, most likely from members on this board) with the same said profits. How are the two things unrelated? This is like Business Ethics 101.
The voice of reason. She is defriending left and right because she is worried about her business and her lifestyle. Who knows if she really is a single mother? That could just be part of her song to get people to buy and promote her products. If she was willing to exploit the grief of others, what will stop her from using others' credit or other personal information in an inappropriate way?
Post by TamiTaylor on Aug 15, 2016 16:17:38 GMT -5
Yall no one is saying smear her business because she was mean. She purposely lied and grossly manipulated (not the word I'm think of but it will hold for now) people on the board. She was in the shadows preying on people that were vulnerable. That is wrong. She doesn't get an ounce of sympathy. Full stop straight to jail do not pass go.