OP is thinking about postponing/canceling her impending wedding, but is afraid she is thowing away her chance at a family. Maybe some of you could share your experiences with her? Especially those of you that ended your marriage relatively quickly or without kids?
Ugh, no problem. I can see her frustrated and depressed on SO if she marries the dude cause the divorce will come in about 2-3 years. I hope someone can learn from my mistakes.