You're completely right. There are no excuses. And what was said, and has been said in the past, is really fucking messed up. I am embarrassed. It's not about my feelings, I know that 1000%. I am sorry skwcm80 and EnchantedSoul
All of the do betters and be betters and I'm sorrys now aren't going to do anything about the hurt you and skwcm80 have felt, and continue to feel from this board. You don't deserve that hurt, or to be surrounded by people who allow it to continue to happen.