Continued baby steps

[ProfessorArtNerd]

my mom slept over last night. I'm not sure how we got on the topic, but I finally let her know about the more aggressive things H has done (wall slapping, laundry basket flipping, and the MOTN flashlight bullshit.

And she she said it- "Lauren, that's abuse"

-!: I'm finally starting to believe it. And between that and the fact that Lucy asked if she could wearing her GoPro to record when he yells at her and the BABY, I'm determined.

I have to get us out. I'm still overwhelmed and unsure I could keep us in our house on my own. I really dont think he even knows. Maybe he just think I'm depressed, still. But he's the one who needs therapy, ever more than me. 

Ugh, brain dump, I'm sorry, I know there are bigger things happening. 

[aussiecrush]

I'm so glad you told your mom and have support. Keep those baby steps going and before you know it you will have walked right over his ass.

[ginandjucie24]

Big hugs. I have no advice but I have nothing but faith in you, that you will do what is best for you and your kids, and loads of support from me. If you need anything just ask.

[cville]

I'm glad your mom understood immediately once you told her. Continued strength to you and the kids.

When you're ready, I'll see if I can get the name of a good divorce lawyer for you. Or anything else you need.

[spitforspat]

These aren't just baby steps. These are great big steps. I'm glad you have your mom for support now, too. HUGS.

[Deleted]

This is important and immediate. And good for you for starting to build your support circle! This is a leap in the right direction. <3

[BaliHai]

You're doing awesome. One step at a time is exactly the right course of action. So happy you are building your IRL support system. (heart)

[Monica Geller]

I'm proud of you for opening up to your mom. You know she's got your back in this. And I'm sure he is clueless...b/c he's too self involved to see how he's hurting his wife and kids. I'm sorry.

[flex]

We're here for you!

[happywife]

You're moving in the right direction and I am so happy to hear your mom is there supporting you. You are not alone. You can do this. Hugs.

[miniroller]

Many hugs of congratulations that you've come to this point. You KNOW, please let us know how we can help even just by web-cheering/ encouragement. You've Got This, Prof; you can absolutely do this!

[mom2twoboys]

I am so glad you are being able to tell people you trust now and your mom is behind you. Please be safe and know that things will be so much better.

[nahoku]

I'm proud of you for confiding in your mom and I'm glad she sees the situation for what it is. You will need her and her support. You can do this. Love and hugs and strength to you.

[kris356]

I am so glad you told your mom, that is a huge step.

You can do this and we are here to help, even if it just to give you moral support and to vent. ((Hugs))

[Eagles]

I'm so proud of you. These are really big steps. You know that I'm here for literally anything you need. Anything. You have so many people cheering for you.

[isabel]

That's a great step and I'm glad your mom is understanding the weight of the situation now. We're all here for you.

[gretchenindisguise]

You're continuing to do a fantastic job of reclaiming your life.

Keep making these steps. Don't be surprised or discouraged if a few are backward. Your trajectory will continue to be forward.

You got this. You have your family. You have us. You have you.

[sofamonkey]

Every single time you are brave enough to say something, you get stronger. You aren't hiding behind his bullshit. I'm proud of you for taking these steps. It's hard to do, and you are amazing.

[knx9211]

Really proud of you. I'm glad you've let someone IRL in on what we've been going through.

We have a Philadelphia office. I'm not sure if anyone there does family law, but even if they don't, I'm sure I can get you a kick ass recommendation if you need one. Please let me know if I can help.

[nicechicken]

So many hugs ProfArt. You are doing this. You are doing awesome!

[W.T.Faulkner]

You're such a badass, dude. I am in awe of how strong you are. And Luce is lucky to have a mom to model what strength in a woman looks like. I'm here for anything you need.

[candreco]

Oh, honey, telling your closest family member is a HUGE step, not a baby one. Keep making forward progress, knowing you've got her support (and ours!).

[followyourarrow]

I'm so glad you talked to your mom and she was supportive. It's a great step. You're totally capable and can do this.

[specialk]

That's a really big step. I'm glad you're taking strides in the right direction. Hugs and best wishes as you continue down this path.

[sarahsays]

That was a really big step! I'm so glad that you're starting to let the people in your real life know.

[rex]

telling your mom is a huge step, you're doing such a great job.

[residentdj]

I'm glad you told someone close to you what's going on. Having support to help you through is important and this is a big step. Keep things moving and know that you and your children deserve better.

[styme46]

I'm really glad you confided in your mom. Baby steps are good. You can do this, I know you can. (((Hugs))) friend.

[lovelyshoes]

So proud of you! You're moving in the right direction and that's the most important thing. Continued good wishes to you.

[pumpkin]

This is a huge step!
I'm so proud of you for taking it and am glad your mom took it in stride and understood. Remember your inner strength and how much you are loved.