I wrote a letter to my daughter for her next birthday in April just in case I'm not around.
This was one of the hardest things I've ever done. It took me three days to finish.
I'm remaining positive and I'm a fighter but it makes my heart ache that I may never see another autumn. It's physically painful to know that I won't be able to console my children when they are hurting the most.
Aw, dear His, so many hugs for your aching heart, friend. I cannot imagine, but am so proud of you for overcoming your fear & emotional pain to make this step. It takes a very strong person to accomplish this incredibly difficult task, & I just know: should she ever read it, she'll cherish it forever.
I'm so sorry that you are facing this. You are amazing to have the foresight to do these things with all that you're going through. As a child that has lost my father (when I was 5) and stepfather who raised me (almost 3 years ago) both to cancer----I know just how precious memories and mementos are. Cards, photos, etc--those are the things that we can tangibly have to reflect on. You are an amazing mother and grandmother.
Post by snipsnsnails on Oct 11, 2016 9:47:30 GMT -5
Sending you love, friend. I You will spend eternity with them, V, in a place where "He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. All these things are gone forever." But that never takes away the pain of the separation in this life until that day comes. I'm praying for you and your peace.
Post by amberlyrose on Oct 11, 2016 9:55:33 GMT -5
Hugs, His. You are a wonderful mom and your kids are going to cherish the words you leave them. I remember writing to my grandma after she had surgery on a tumor. We were never that close because she lived out of state, but I still love that I was able to get some last minute advice and have her words of encouragement.
Post by medicmommy on Oct 11, 2016 10:07:17 GMT -5
I don't know what to say, but didn't want to read without replying. I pray that you won't need the letter, but what a wonderful treasure for your daughter. ♡♡
Post by Chuppathingy on Oct 11, 2016 10:12:48 GMT -5
I hope this isn't out of place but I want to thank you for doing this for your children. I lost my dad this past Thursday to lung cancer. He was diagnosed least year and we didn't get a lot of time. Your kids are going to feel so lucky to have these letters from you. God bless you His. I'm sorry you're going through this.
I hope this isn't out of place but I want to thank you for doing this for your children. I lost my dad this past Thursday to lung cancer. He was diagnosed least year and we didn't get a lot of time. Your kids are going to feel so lucky to have these letters from you. God bless you His. I'm sorry you're going through this.
I'm so sorry about your dad. Peace be with you. *Hugs*
Post by karinothing on Oct 11, 2016 10:18:43 GMT -5
For someone that has lost her mom to cancer, your daughter will be forever grateful if the letter because necessary. When we found out that my mom was terminal there was no time for her to write the letter. I wish every day (nearly 8 years later) that she had had time to write a letter to me.
I know this is super hard for you. But I'm glad you're being proactive and your children and grandchildren will appreciate this. My mom didn't do anything to prepare for what the final outcome would be. Of course, that was her choice, but still...
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny