You are handling everything with such grace and strength. I admire you for caring so much about not upsetting your mom. No time will ever be a good time to tell your dad, but I hope tomorrow, you will find the right time. If it helps, visualize all of us surrounding you and holding you up as you have that difficult conversation.
Praying for you as you get everything ready and travel to MDA. Please reach out if there is anything we can do to help you while you're down there.
I'm growing older but not up. My metabolic rate is pleasantly stuck, let the winds of time blow over my head. I'd rather die while I'm living than live while I'm dead.