Monday randoms

[blane12]

May 23, 2017 4:44:24 GMT -5 bean47 said:

May 22, 2017 21:51:23 GMT -5 blane12 said:

Do it bean47!!!! I'm still wavering on #3...pregnancy pact? Lol

I can't make these big life decisions! Seriously. I talk myself in and out of it all day long.

Same. My SIL's wedding is in August, and I don't want to be pregnant for that, so I've let myself relax about it for now, but would need to make a decision directly after that (at least that's what I'm telling myself).

[sunshineluv]

May 22, 2017 21:58:31 GMT -5 blane12 said:

sunshineluv - please don't feel like that. I've felt that way before too, but I promise you are doing great. I get not wanting to work on stuff at home when you have such few hours to even see him. Hang in there momma!!!

Thank you, the comments on here, and a bit of a pep talk from DH helped a lot.

I called his school and have a tour scheduled for May 31.

Also the two beers I drank last night really helped. LOL

[rjamz]

May 23, 2017 4:44:24 GMT -5 bean47 said:

May 22, 2017 21:51:23 GMT -5 blane12 said:

Do it bean47!!!! I'm still wavering on #3...pregnancy pact? Lol

I can't make these big life decisions! Seriously. I talk myself in and out of it all day long.

You can do what all my friends here have done when deciding on a third: start casually trying, figure if it happens it happens, and then get pregnant immediately, lol. It's happened to like 3 people I know.

[bean47]

May 23, 2017 8:58:48 GMT -5 rjamz said:

May 23, 2017 4:44:24 GMT -5 bean47 said:

I can't make these big life decisions! Seriously. I talk myself in and out of it all day long.

You can do what all my friends here have done when deciding on a third: start casually trying, figure if it happens it happens, and then get pregnant immediately, lol. It's happened to like 3 people I know.

Lol my personality can't handle that. I also can't handle actually deciding one way or another. Both my girls were conceived the first month we tried. I feel like "casually trying" would be the same as your friends, an immediate pregnancy!

[bean47]

Oh and one small detail...since I talk like it's all up to me making up my mind...my H isn't really wanting a third. So I guess that factors some. Although, if I was 100% sure I wanted one, he would probably agree.

[TrudyCampbell]

Ahh when are you going to Disney bean47?
If teamhayes can do it with 4 kids, you can def so it with 3!

[bean47]

May 23, 2017 9:31:53 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

Ahh when are you going to Disney bean47?
If teamhayes can do it with 4 kids, you can def so it with 3!

April 2018! Which would also be my ideal time to birth a child, work wise.

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May 23, 2017 9:31:53 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

Ahh when are you going to Disney bean47?
If teamhayes can do it with 4 kids, you can def so it with 3!

Dude 2 kids almost killed me at Disney lol. That was actually one of my deciding factors to be done lol I have to be able to travel and almost enjoy it.

[TrudyCampbell]

May 23, 2017 11:32:46 GMT -5 bean47 said:

May 23, 2017 9:31:53 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

Ahh when are you going to Disney bean47?
If teamhayes can do it with 4 kids, you can def so it with 3!

April 2018! Which would also be my ideal time to birth a child, work wise.

What dates? I'll be there 3/29-4/6 *please overlap*

[bean47]

May 23, 2017 14:08:54 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

May 23, 2017 11:32:46 GMT -5 bean47 said:

April 2018! Which would also be my ideal time to birth a child, work wise.

What dates? I'll be there 3/29-4/6 *please overlap*

Last week in April. I would have been THRILLED to over lap with you!

[TrudyCampbell]

May 23, 2017 18:23:58 GMT -5 bean47 said:

May 23, 2017 14:08:54 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

What dates? I'll be there 3/29-4/6 *please overlap*

Last week in April. I would have been THRILLED to over lap with you!

Gahhhhh I keep assuming everyone has off the week I'm going because it's both easter and Passover. Such a bummer! Good news for you is that it will be far less crowded when you go, I'm going during a horrible time.

[bean47]

May 23, 2017 18:56:08 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

May 23, 2017 18:23:58 GMT -5 bean47 said:

Last week in April. I would have been THRILLED to over lap with you!

Gahhhhh I keep assuming everyone has off the week I'm going because it's both easter and Passover. Such a bummer! Good news for you is that it will be far less crowded when you go, I'm going during a horrible time.

You'll still have a great time. I'm excited for lower crowds knowing that our break is such an odd week.

[fusion]

tomatoes!!! so, so, so delicious.