Why would I keep following people who think I'm an asshole and a bitch? And allow them to keep following me? Not sure why that is surprising. I don't hate follow people, and don't want others doing the same to me.
And honestly, the mere fact that you realized that probably meant you specifically went looking for me there and were going to dig through my profile to dredge up more stuff to yell at me about. So I feel pretty good about my decision.
One more thing. You unfriended me over a year ago on FB, but I didn't say a word. It wasn't unnecessary to say something and it was obvious you didn't feel like we merited being FB friends. Which was fine. Not sure why me doing the exact same thing is any different.
Yes, I was going through all of your car selfies and pics of your children to dredge things up. Get over yourself.
I unfriended EVERY SINGLE GBCNer I never met IRL when I went through all the crap in the MMM gtg group text. YOU KNOW, THE WHOLE RACISM THING?
Dude, you lack self awareness.
Then why did you go check for me on IG? And lol at the implied judgement over selfies and kid posts. That's what IG is for moms. Yours is similar.
I don't remember the MMM group text issue. I don't venture over there. And it's seriously not a big deal that I was unfriended. I don't even remember when I realized. My point was that I figured there was a reason and there was no need to call you out for it. Just as you are well aware of the reason why we no longer need to follow each other on IG. So I guess I don't understand the big deal made about it on here.
Why would I keep following people who think I'm an asshole and a bitch? And allow them to keep following me? Not sure why that is surprising. I don't hate follow people, and don't want others doing the same to me.
And honestly, the mere fact that you realized that probably meant you specifically went looking for me there and were going to dig through my profile to dredge up more stuff to yell at me about. So I feel pretty good about my decision.
One more thing. You unfriended me over a year ago on FB, but I didn't say a word. It wasn't unnecessary to say something and it was obvious you didn't feel like we merited being FB friends. Which was fine. Not sure why me doing the exact same thing is any different.
That's all well, good, and "noble", but why were you so shitty to hisno1girl , and why did you let your friends take the fall for it?
It was super shitty. I said as much later in the thread. Also later in the thread I mentioned that my infant had her 2 month shots that day and was miserable and so I had to step back for an hour or so bc I wasn't able to keep up. I did come back and recognize how shitty what I said and thought was. I do realize that doesn't erase the damage done.
Why would I keep following people who think I'm an asshole and a bitch? And allow them to keep following me? Not sure why that is surprising. I don't hate follow people, and don't want others doing the same to me.
And honestly, the mere fact that you realized that probably meant you specifically went looking for me there and were going to dig through my profile to dredge up more stuff to yell at me about. So I feel pretty good about my decision.
One more thing. You unfriended me over a year ago on FB, but I didn't say a word. It wasn't unnecessary to say something and it was obvious you didn't feel like we merited being FB friends. Which was fine. Not sure why me doing the exact same thing is any different.
“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg
Then why did you go check for me on IG? And lol at the implied judgement over selfies and kid posts. That's what IG is for moms. Yours is similar.
I don't remember the MMM group text issue. I don't venture over there. And it's seriously not a big deal that I was unfriended. I don't even remember when I realized. My point was that I figured there was a reason and there was no need to call you out for it. Just as you are well aware of the reason why we no longer need to follow each other on IG. So I guess I don't understand the big deal made about it on here.
Yes, I am aware that my IG is the same which is why it's so fucking laughable that you think so highly of yourself that I was going to pull anything from your boring ass IG feed.
I'll break it down for you. I was texting @stilljustash about how I didn't think you would respond to people calling you an asshole for what you did to his (um you still haven't) and then I said "but I bet she'll go through her IG and delete people!" Thats all. Feel better?
I responded in the original post back last August, and I responded tonight.
I'm still working. And my evenings are full with kid stuff. I caught up in the thread, immediately went and handled my IG and FB and came back to this thread. Where I am attempting to address my actions.
It was super shitty. I said as much later in the thread. Also later in the thread I mentioned that my infant had her 2 month shots that day and was miserable and so I had to step back for an hour or so bc I wasn't able to keep up. I did come back and recognize how shitty what I said and thought was. I do realize that doesn't erase the damage done.
Yes. I still feel awful for that post and assumption. I absolutely was a fucking asshole. I know nothing I can say will erase it from His' memory and for that I feel terribly. I wish I could fix it, but I recognize that once some things are out there, there is no going back.
Damn, if there ever needed to be an example of white fucking privilege, this whole bullshit with Elsa and company is it! Y'all go saying shitty, mean, basic as fuck things about shit you don't know anything about it. And then you get up in here and backtrack that shit all over the place. All I'm reading is "Blah, blah, excuse, excuse, hair flippy, you do it too!, blah, blah, blah, blah, I'm fully of shit."
“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg
What? I deleted several people, not just nata. I don't think she is scary. I just think she dislikes me, and I try to keep my IG to people who actually like seeing my posts.
Yes, I was going through all of your car selfies and pics of your children to dredge things up. Get over yourself.
I unfriended EVERY SINGLE GBCNer I never met IRL when I went through all the crap in the MMM gtg group text. YOU KNOW, THE WHOLE RACISM THING?
Dude, you lack self awareness.
Then why did you go check for me on IG? And lol at the implied judgement over selfies and kid posts. That's what IG is for moms. Yours is similar.
I don't remember the MMM group text issue. I don't venture over there. And it's seriously not a big deal that I was unfriended. I don't even remember when I realized. My point was that I figured there was a reason and there was no need to call you out for it. Just as you are well aware of the reason why we no longer need to follow each other on IG. So I guess I don't understand the big deal made about it on here.
Dude don't. That shit was everywhere all over these boards during all of that. If you didn't know/notice that's because you purposely turned a blind eye.
Damn, if there ever needed to be an example of white fucking privilege, this whole bullshit with Elsa and company is it! Y'all go saying shitty, mean, basic as fuck things about shit you don't know anything about it. And then you get up in here and backtrack that shit all over the place. All I'm reading is "Blah, blah, excuse, excuse, hair flippy, you do it too!, blah, blah, blah, blah, I'm fully of shit."
I'm not backtracking for the August post. Not at all. I said something supremely shitty, that was on me, and I am incredibly sorry for it.
What I was asking nata about was why it was laughable that I would remove those who think I'm an asshole and a bitch from IG. I don't follow people I despise, and I don't want people who despise me to follow me. I don't think that is unreasonable. I would assume most would feel similarly.
Then why did you go check for me on IG? And lol at the implied judgement over selfies and kid posts. That's what IG is for moms. Yours is similar.
I don't remember the MMM group text issue. I don't venture over there. And it's seriously not a big deal that I was unfriended. I don't even remember when I realized. My point was that I figured there was a reason and there was no need to call you out for it. Just as you are well aware of the reason why we no longer need to follow each other on IG. So I guess I don't understand the big deal made about it on here.
Dude don't. That shit was everywhere all over these boards during all of that. If you didn't know/notice that because you purposely turned a blind eye.
When? Given, my gbcn memory is crap, so it may very well have been when I was around but just don't remember it. Again, as I mentioned earlier in this thread, the baby's sleep has not been good, and I've been struggling in the memory dept in general. I've intimated this before in the post I made where I messed up at work. Its been a crazy year and I haven't been around as much.
I'm not backtracking for the August post. Not at all. I said something supremely shitty, that was on me, and I am incredibly sorry for it.
What I was asking nata about was why it was laughable that I would remove those who think I'm an asshole and a bitch from IG. I don't follow people I despise, and I don't want people who despise me to follow me. I don't think that is unreasonable. I would assume most would feel similarly.
Since you either have reading comprehension problems OR want to twist my written words, I'll help you out again.
I SAID IT WAS LAUGHABLE BECAUSE YOU THOUGHT I WAS LOOKING FOR YOU ON IG TO DREDGE UP SHIT TO BRING HERE.
I don't think she thought that. Like you said, there was nothing to bring here. I think she deleted you because you guys are obviously going at it. You are reaching here.
Dude don't. That shit was everywhere all over these boards during all of that. If you didn't know/notice that because you purposely turned a blind eye.
When? Given, my gbcn memory is crap, so it may very well have been when I was around but just don't remember it. Again, as I mentioned earlier in this thread, the baby's sleep has not been good, and I've been struggling in the memory dept in general. I've intimated this before in the post I made where I messed up at work. Its been a crazy year and I haven't been around as much.
Since you either have reading comprehension problems OR want to twist my written words, I'll help you out again.
I SAID IT WAS LAUGHABLE BECAUSE YOU THOUGHT I WAS LOOKING FOR YOU ON IG TO DREDGE UP SHIT TO BRING HERE.
I don't think she thought that. Like you said, there was nothing to bring here. I think she deleted you because you guys are obviously going at it. You are reaching here.
When? Given, my gbcn memory is crap, so it may very well have been when I was around but just don't remember it. Again, as I mentioned earlier in this thread, the baby's sleep has not been good, and I've been struggling in the memory dept in general. I've intimated this before in the post I made where I messed up at work. Its been a crazy year and I haven't been around as much.
BITCH PLEASE, 90% OF US HAVE BABIES.
I know. And I would hope that other moms who have been incredibly sleep deprived would understand how much it affects your life and your headspace. At one point I fell asleep while driving to work and ran off the road and so my H and I were carpooling when we could bc I didn't feel safe driving my kids.
I'm not making this excuse for anything other than not remembering a specific post/incident. A lot has gone on here over the past few months, I am sure I've missed things, even big things like a racially charged text. I'm sorry that happened.
Since you either have reading comprehension problems OR want to twist my written words, I'll help you out again.
I SAID IT WAS LAUGHABLE BECAUSE YOU THOUGHT I WAS LOOKING FOR YOU ON IG TO DREDGE UP SHIT TO BRING HERE.
I don't think she thought that. Like you said, there was nothing to bring here. I think she deleted you because you guys are obviously going at it. You are reaching here.