Who the hell knows what this thread is about now

[05heel]

May 25, 2017 22:46:35 GMT -5 @natariru said:

May 25, 2017 22:43:49 GMT -5 05heel said:

would you believe someone on MMM reported her for that? I don't recall who. I obviously just kept right on with my day.

Oh my god.

I think the report said her post was abusive and unnecessary. Something like that. Oh to be that fragile.

[claudiajean]

May 25, 2017 22:48:55 GMT -5 freedom said:

May 25, 2017 22:42:09 GMT -5 HRH Queen Dick I said:

No in fact she going all Hi!!! to Kirkette tells me she must have had a lobotomy since we last saw her.

She's definitely wearing her sassy pants. I think I mean she seems less vague. In any case I'm not sure why Elsa picked her for tag team wrestling. Must be the sleep deprivation

Maybe Elsa didn't have many options. And all her limited options were fragile.

[killercupcake]

May 25, 2017 22:47:37 GMT -5 05heel said:

May 25, 2017 22:46:35 GMT -5 @natariru said:

Oh my god.

I think the report said her post was abusive and unnecessary. Something like that. Oh to be that fragile.

I had a parent tell me I was using abusive language toward her because I told her I wouldn't continue the conversation if she continued to yell at me.

Lots of fragile women out there.

[Deleted]

[hisno1girl]

May 25, 2017 22:51:21 GMT -5 @natariru said:

May 25, 2017 22:48:55 GMT -5 freedom said:

She's definitely wearing her sassy pants. I think I mean she seems less vague. In any case I'm not sure why Elsa picked her for tag team wrestling. Must be the sleep deprivation

Probably bc everyone else thinks I'm scary.

I am, FTR. I'm also worse in person. It's fun.

My FB "About me" section and I put: I'm a bad ass. Any other suggestions?" LOL

My DD's says that she's little and mean.

[hisno1girl]

May 25, 2017 22:52:17 GMT -5 @fs said:

Always funny. Always.

[glinda]

It wasn't just a "racially charged" group text, it was an overt act of hatred right after a thread where all of those women said "we are listening and we are learning." Then they immediately turned around and showed their asses bc apparently what that phrase REALLY meant to them was "we are learning to try and hide our racism better."

[pixy0stix]

May 25, 2017 22:51:38 GMT -5 @kirkette said:

May 25, 2017 22:43:49 GMT -5 05heel said:

would you believe someone on MMM reported her for that? I don't recall who. I obviously just kept right on with my day.

Oh I believe it, because remember how many people, attempted to get me banned, for @booby and v 's shit?

The calls of "THREATS! THREATS!" were insane. 

[05heel]

May 25, 2017 22:59:29 GMT -5 @246baje said:

May 25, 2017 22:43:49 GMT -5 05heel said:

would you believe someone on MMM reported her for that? I don't recall who. I obviously just kept right on with my day.

Haaaaaaaaahaaaaaa


Lol thanks for that. I didn't even know.

I think it is telling that Elsa and the rest of these fragile bitches are making it about themselves. From the ones who felt targeted by folks talking about Veronika's lank, limp, lackluster locks to Elsa implying that nata was going to go trolling her insta for stuff to attack her with.

Why is this so similar to booby calling WOC scary?

the mommy card annoys me to no end, too. People love to deflect with that around here. We're all just little mumsies doing our best! Yes, that may be true, but clearly my best is a lot better than yours. How about we discuss that.

[oliviapope]

May 25, 2017 22:59:29 GMT -5 @246baje said:

May 25, 2017 22:43:49 GMT -5 05heel said:

would you believe someone on MMM reported her for that? I don't recall who. I obviously just kept right on with my day.

Haaaaaaaaahaaaaaa


Lol thanks for that. I didn't even know.

I think it is telling that Elsa and the rest of these fragile bitches are making it about themselves. From the ones who felt targeted by folks talking about Veronika's lank, limp, lackluster locks to Elsa implying that nata was going to go trolling her insta for stuff to attack her with.

Why is this so similar to booby calling WOC scary?

Same women who are HORRIFIED by Trump voters but don't know any POC (dying to know how many POC Elsa follows now after getting rid of Natariru). I don't know why white people so scared, they're the fucking scary ones.

[Elsa]

May 25, 2017 22:59:29 GMT -5 @246baje said:

May 25, 2017 22:43:49 GMT -5 05heel said:

would you believe someone on MMM reported her for that? I don't recall who. I obviously just kept right on with my day.

Haaaaaaaaahaaaaaa


Lol thanks for that. I didn't even know.

I think it is telling that Elsa and the rest of these fragile bitches are making it about themselves. From the ones who felt targeted by folks talking about Veronika's lank, limp, lackluster locks to Elsa implying that nata was going to go trolling her insta for stuff to attack her with.

Why is this so similar to booby calling WOC scary?

I removed everyone who liked the post that nata made about me being a bitch and an asshole from FB and from IG. WOC and white women alike. Again, I don't hate follow others and don't want people hate following me.

I acknowledge that I made what I did to His about me. I didn't intend to, I was attempting to convey my remorse. She deserves far better than the awful things I said.

[05heel]

May 25, 2017 23:13:18 GMT -5 @246baje said:

May 25, 2017 21:33:49 GMT -5 Elsa said:

And honestly, the mere fact that you realized that probably meant you specifically went looking for me there and were going to dig through my profile to dredge up more stuff to yell at me about. So I feel pretty good about my decision.
.

This is what you accused @natariru of specifically. I don't care who the fuck you unfollowed but you used this reasoning for unfollowing her and placed yourself in the role of victim and nata as villain.

It's a pattern with Darth Beckies and it becomes easy to see.

Want some pie?

"to yell at me about". If that ain't the most sniveling, sackless shit...

People who spend most of their waking hours making snarky comments online turn into helpless children so suddenly. It's amazing!

[Elsa]

May 25, 2017 23:18:24 GMT -5 05heel said:

May 25, 2017 23:13:18 GMT -5 @246baje said:

This is what you accused @natariru of specifically. I don't care who the fuck you unfollowed but you used this reasoning for unfollowing her and placed yourself in the role of victim and nata as villain.

It's a pattern with Darth Beckies and it becomes easy to see.

Want some pie?

"to yell at me about". If that ain't the most sniveling, sackless shit...

People who spend most of their waking hours making snarky comments online turn into helpless children so suddenly. It's amazing!

The reason I said that exact phrase is because she was typing in all caps, i.e. yelling, when she called me an asshole and a bitch.


@246baje I see your point on how I phrased that was wrong and why it was taken that I saw nata as scary. That was not my intention but I realize that THAT is the problem- that it wasn't intentional but reinforced the stereotype of angry WOC.

[peachy]

May 25, 2017 21:11:20 GMT -5 HRH Queen Dick I said:

May 25, 2017 20:59:19 GMT -5 peachy said:

I don't know, maybe us white women need more shaming in general. It's often deserved.

JUST MAYBE? Lol.

You are so right.

Here's something I know - us white women need more shaming in general. It is well-deserved.**

[Elsa]

May 25, 2017 23:30:17 GMT -5 @natariru said:

May 25, 2017 23:24:59 GMT -5 Elsa said:

The reason I said that exact phrase is because she was typing in all caps, i.e. yelling, when she called me an asshole and a bitch.


@246baje I see your point on how I phrased that was wrong and why it was taken that I saw nata as scary. That was not my intention but I realize that THAT is the problem- that it wasn't intentional but reinforced the stereotype of angry WOC.

Hey I'm still here you know. Were you planning on apologizing directly to me for your white nonsense?

Absolutely. I am sorry that I implied you were scary. I know that you are not, but I see now how my words made you into a mean and threatening figure, and I truly apologize. I am working to do better but recognize that I have a long way to go.

[brandnewday]

May 25, 2017 23:03:50 GMT -5 05heel said:

May 25, 2017 22:59:29 GMT -5 @246baje said:

Haaaaaaaaahaaaaaa


Lol thanks for that. I didn't even know.

I think it is telling that Elsa and the rest of these fragile bitches are making it about themselves. From the ones who felt targeted by folks talking about Veronika's lank, limp, lackluster locks to Elsa implying that nata was going to go trolling her insta for stuff to attack her with.

Why is this so similar to booby calling WOC scary?

the mommy card annoys me to no end, too. People love to deflect with that around here. We're all just little mumsies doing our best! Yes, that may be true, but clearly my best is a lot better than yours. How about we discuss that.

This is definitely some Room of One's Own type of white feminist bullisht. You poor dear, having to worry about sleep deprivation and selective memory loss. WOC over here are worried about their husband's making it home from work, their sons and daughters growing up in this fucked up ass country. Let me worry about your woes as a white mother raising white kids in a country built for your success. 

[brandnewday]

I would also like to add that I find it mother fucking miraculous for something as big as what happened on MMM to @natariru and (yet again) @kirkette , to go unnoticed. Sleep deprivation and all. Mostly because no one forgets shit in this community. Some monster thread will blow up and all of it gets brought up again. People get tagged, shit gets linked, dragging commences, fragility, white tears, heels dug, ghost.

This community doesn't have that much turnover. It is always the same shit on a different day. I don't buy that "I don't remember" at all. Particularly since so many popular posters ghosted after being called out from the MMM incident.

[05heel]

May 25, 2017 23:38:23 GMT -5 brandnewday said:

May 25, 2017 23:03:50 GMT -5 05heel said:

the mommy card annoys me to no end, too. People love to deflect with that around here. We're all just little mumsies doing our best! Yes, that may be true, but clearly my best is a lot better than yours. How about we discuss that.

This is definitely some Room of One's Own type of white feminist bullisht. You poor dear, having to worry about sleep deprivation and selective memory loss. WOC over here are worried about their husband's making it home from work, their sons and daughters growing up in this fucked up ass country. Let me worry about your woes as a white mother raising white kids in a country built for your success. 

I don't relate to 99% of the mommy struggles that are posted here. I usually just ignore them, because I understand that these conversations aren't for me. But when it's used as a shield for other sketchy behavior, then I get irritated. Anyway, since when is simply doing your best good enough? That's not how I was raised.

[Que?]

Wonder if Elsa still wants to do that AMA she's been begging for...?

[muffin0]

May 25, 2017 23:45:41 GMT -5 brandnewday said:

I would also like to add that I find it mother fucking miraculous for something as big as what happened on MMM to @natariru and (yet again) @kirkette , to go unnoticed. Sleep deprivation and all. Mostly because no one forgets shit in this community. Some monster thread will blow up and all of it gets brought up again. People get tagged, shit gets linked, dragging commences, fragility, white tears, heels dug, ghost.

This community doesn't have that much turnover. It is always the same shit on a different day. I don't buy that "I don't remember" at all. Particularly since so many popular posters ghosted after being called out from the MMM incident.

I have the memory of a gold fish, and sure I don't remember every single detail, but there is no "not knowing" of what happened.

Even if you never read the original posts, the amount of times "I miss booby" or "what happened with the BOD's anyone know? teehee!!" Has been mentioned there is no fucking way you just don't remember.

[mishy]

May 25, 2017 22:14:23 GMT -5 sallywalker said:

May 25, 2017 22:07:59 GMT -5 @natariru said:

Since you either have reading comprehension problems OR want to twist my written words, I'll help you out again.

I SAID IT WAS LAUGHABLE BECAUSE YOU THOUGHT I WAS LOOKING FOR YOU ON IG TO DREDGE UP SHIT TO BRING HERE.

I don't think she thought that. Like you said, there was nothing to bring here. I think she deleted you because you guys are obviously going at it. You are reaching here.

Thank heavens you are here to speculate on what Elsa thought and why she deleted natariru. I can see why they call you Nancy Drew. 

P.S. This isn't the case of 2 posters going at it. One person thinks it's cool to be an asshole to someone going through cancer while expecting everyone to be sensitive to sleep-deprived mothers* and people with scalp psoriasis. In contrast, the other poster is a decent human being.**

*she didn't say it but probably only white women. and maybe even just ones with long hair. 

**and by decent human being, I mean kick-ass individual but since Elsa already has an inferiority complex, I didn't want to hurt her poor widdle white feelings even more. SHE'S SENSITIVE AND HAS A REALLY HARD LIFE SALLY!!!!     

[mishy]

May 25, 2017 22:17:36 GMT -5 Elsa said:

May 25, 2017 22:10:23 GMT -5 @natariru said:

BITCH PLEASE, 90% OF US HAVE BABIES.

I know. And I would hope that other moms who have been incredibly sleep deprived would understand how much it affects your life and your headspace. At one point I fell asleep while driving to work and ran off the road and so my H and I were carpooling when we could bc I didn't feel safe driving my kids.

I'm not making this excuse for anything other than not remembering a specific post/incident. A lot has gone on here over the past few months, I am sure I've missed things, even big things like a racially charged text. I'm sorry that happened.

So just to be clear. You can remember now that you made the posts about His the same day your 2 month old had shots?  Or, since I'm sure you'll tell me you went back and reread, you can't go read other things you don't remember or missed? But you learn about a big fucking deal that made natariru delete a shitton of FB friends and you only care about defending that you didn't see it, but you don't ask about it, try to find it and read it now, or seem to give any general fuck about it?  

Also, that thread you "missed" spanned the days of Sept 8-14, 2016 and was 64 pages long.  But you were here on Sept 10, posting about reading a fucking book and wanting to hold your sleeping baby.  If you were so sleep-deprived that you couldn't even drive, then how the fuck were you reading a book, or you know, not trying to sleep when your baby was sleeping?  And don't try the "I don't even go there" schtick bc miso posted here on ML on Sept 8, with a thread title of "If you ever create a group to talk shit..." 

pandce.proboards.com/thread/551509/girl-on-train

pandce.proboards.com/thread/551318/create-group-talk

[andwhat]

May 25, 2017 22:20:39 GMT -5 @natariru said:

May 25, 2017 22:18:07 GMT -5 HRH Queen Dick I said:

The LipSense team has arrived. Lol.

It's cool, I got mine too. They are probably sleeping but it'll be fun tomorrow.

@tooshort iammalcolmx brandnewday @barefootbarista @stilljustash kicks @246baje andwhat cubed

I know what I am doing this morning. 

[morecoffeeplease]

I'm dying that sallywalker came back after months to defend this shit.

I figured when Elsa told a mother who's son had a heart transplant and had a lot of health issues to just go get a second job and then the bullshit with his, people would realize she was indefensible.

(I know that shit went down with squirrelly but regardless of that, if that is your go to advice for anyone who has a family member with major health issues, i side eye the hell out of you)

[WOUNDTIGHT]

May 26, 2017 4:56:45 GMT -5 morecoffeeplease said:

I'm dying that sallywalker came back after months to defend this shit.

I figured when Elsa told a mother who's son had a heart transplant and had a lot of health issues to just go get a second job and then the bullshit with his, people would realize she was indefensible.

(I know that shit went down with squirrelly but regardless of that, if that is your go to advice for anyone who has a family member with major health issues, i side eye the hell out of you)

Please don't forget in that same thread where she told Squirrley to go sling coffee (rather than, you know,spend time with her critically ill child) she said she accepted free IVF medications from other posters here which was "as good as cash!". While simultaneously telling Squirrley to find her bootstraps.

[themysteriouswife]

May 26, 2017 5:13:23 GMT -5 WOUNDTIGHT said:

May 26, 2017 4:56:45 GMT -5 morecoffeeplease said:

I'm dying that sallywalker came back after months to defend this shit.

I figured when Elsa told a mother who's son had a heart transplant and had a lot of health issues to just go get a second job and then the bullshit with his, people would realize she was indefensible.

(I know that shit went down with squirrelly but regardless of that, if that is your go to advice for anyone who has a family member with major health issues, i side eye the hell out of you)

Please don't forget in that same thread where she told Squirrley to go sling coffee (rather than, you know,spend time with her critically ill child) she said she accepted free IVF medications from other posters here which was "as good as cash!". While simultaneously telling Squirrley to find her bootstraps.

Wasn't she given a good bit of money from a family member to cover the rest of her IF treatments? The HIS situation isn't the only thing she's been an ass about

[amandakisser]

May 26, 2017 5:49:12 GMT -5 themysteriouswife said:

May 26, 2017 5:13:23 GMT -5 WOUNDTIGHT said:

Please don't forget in that same thread where she told Squirrley to go sling coffee (rather than, you know,spend time with her critically ill child) she said she accepted free IVF medications from other posters here which was "as good as cash!". While simultaneously telling Squirrley to find her bootstraps.

Wasn't she given a good bit of money from a family member to cover the rest of her IF treatments? The HIS situation isn't the only thing she's been an ass about

Pretty sure her grandmother offered to pay for her IVF treatments outright.

Maybe she should have thought of selling more LipSense then, since she's suddenly able to now quit her job because sales are so good...

[bex]

The shit on MMM last fall got copied all over the boards. I think TamiTaylor even did "PSA" posts telling people to go read the threads. We had the cookiemonster thread, then the group text thread, then Idaholakelady went off.* I think that was the order. It was a bad time and there's a reason MMM has been relatively dead since then.


*And if no one saw ILL's post then they really were just willfully ignoring it.

ETA I don't know what was happening on ML at that time. My point is just that if someone was posting on these boards even semi-regularly, they would have seen what happened on MMM.  Tamb left around that time too for yet "another" racist incident.

[Waffles]

Semi regular poster here. I rarely come on in the evening or during the weekend, have never set foot on MMM, am 6+ hours ahead of most of you and I know what happened.

[andwhat]

My response to basically this ENTIRE thread.