Gift ideas for our host in San Diego - providing us a condo for four nights on Mission Beach and organized dinner, massages, a concert, all kinds of things. Budget $150-200, may be able to stretch that.
I don't consider San Diego to be wine country. Temecula, which is about an hour or so away, has wineries and there are companies that do Limo or bus service to them. That can be fun, but it is not like being close to Napa or Sonoma. Personally, I'd love some good wine, food that pairs well with it (like fancy cheeses) and some glassware.
Mission Beach is a great location - kind of central to everything and on the beach. Have fun!