Dear DH, Last night as we were getting in bed I asked you to set a reminder on your phone to write a check for daycare that is due today. I meant that you should set an alert for BEFORE I left the house. It is not helpful for you to text me a reminder as I am leaving the school after drop off. Also, you totally had time to bike over and drop off the check before you left for work. I know you just wanted to be able to sit and drink your coffee. Signed, Grumpy wife