seeyalater52 They definitely look darker from 7dpo to today. The lines are all much better than the chemical pg lines I had at like 15/16 do. Beta is today right? Just try to stay calm and stop testing! I know it's hard but it isn't making you feel better so just try to distract yourself with other things. And fyi with my successful transfer I had lots of cramping the week of positive test, and kept cramping for next couple of weeks. It's a sign you have something in your uterus that you never have before and it's stretching out! Try to focus on the positives so far. The first few weeks feel like they last forever!
Post by seeyalater52 on Jul 6, 2018 7:11:01 GMT -5
Thank you so much ivy and turboteal. I feel like an idiot because who cries at a positive test?? It’s still very positive although I think the 3-day progression pic is a light trick more than a real thing. They are very much the same in person.
You’re totally right that I need to just step away and wait for the beta because it’s not making me feel any better at this point, it’s making it worse! Today I’m pregnant. I should get my beta results before 4.
seeyalater52 they look darker and definitely stop testing. FWIW I had pretty bad cramping at around 6 weeks and went into my 7 week ultrasound practically in tears.. only to find out that cramping is normal and everything was fine. I know it's so much easier said than done but try to relax, distract yourself anyway you can and take it one day at a time!
I've cried at positive tests, so you're not alone. I see a progression, but I know the feeling of not being sure. FRERs suck, in my opinion, but they're usually really light for me, and yours are nice and dark. Crossing everything that your betas help you feel better - the uncertainty is really awful.
When I had my CP, they were VERY light lines. Those lines are all distinct. The dye isn't designed to differentiate HCG amounts at the higher levels. I say this with love, and someone said it to me in the past... You're using a tool in the wrong way and getting upset when you don't get the results you want. As long as the lines aren't significantly lighter or not showing up anymore, you're good!
Thank you.... I really need the tough love. <3
I actually did get a pretty good progression with the wondfos just now (didn’t post pics) and I know I just need to chill out and wait for them to call.
You are pregnant, I think the lines look good. Don’t look for trouble (I say that with love). I am a huge over thinker, so I get it.
What did your doctor say?
She kinda was like it’s too early to really know but we usually look for a slightly higher number to start so let’s just see how it goes. Cautiously optimistic. She tends to be super optimistic so it felt a little low key from her. She was very clear that I’m pregnant but that it’s not very conclusive when it’s this low.
Post by compassrose on Jul 6, 2018 13:57:25 GMT -5
((seeyalater52)) It really is a numbers game, and you only had high enough HCG to detect on Weds. So I think it's a perfect doubling number. Now we just wait for Monday. I'm here any time you need distraction.
As an anecdote, my 2 early losses were betas of 10 and 27... so you're doing better than that. I know it's so hard though. Early pregnancy is such a rollercoaster of emotions. I hope this is it for you, but even if it's not, we will all be here for you. <3
My successful pregnancies were 22 and 37 (I put 28 in the other thread, but that wasn't right). Mine were both slow growers all the way until 12 weeks and then took off and measured ahead the rest of the way. They brought me in for betas like five times each to make sure I was getting high enough to see a heartbeat. Very stressful, but ultimately very happy endings!
My successful pregnancies were 22 and 37 (I put 28 in the other thread, but that wasn't right). Mine were both slow growers all the way until 12 weeks and then took off and measured ahead the rest of the way. They brought me in for betas like five times each to make sure I was getting high enough to see a heartbeat. Very stressful, but ultimately very happy endings!
You’re the famous krystee of the low but successful betas! Your stories have been giving me hope today, thank you for sharing. It is so, so stressful but I’m trying to hold on to the idea that it isn’t over yet, even though it’s really really hard.
I'm also a low beta-er. This one was 28 on a Thursday and by Monday was up to 251 then up to 1238. I'm now 10 weeks. Doubling is more important than the actual number. Deep breaths and I'm crossing everything for you.
I'm also a low beta-er. This one was 28 on a Thursday and by Monday was up to 251 then up to 1238. I'm now 10 weeks. Doubling is more important than the actual number. Deep breaths and I'm crossing everything for you.
This is promising. Do you remember how many dpi you were on the first draw?
Thank you everyone so much for continuing to pull for this little bean. It means so much. I all of a sudden feel incredibly alone as the people I cycled with are now mourning lack of success or celebrating pregnancies and I feel like I’m in this excruciating limbo between the two. Your support is keeping me going right now.
I'm also a low beta-er. This one was 28 on a Thursday and by Monday was up to 251 then up to 1238. I'm now 10 weeks. Doubling is more important than the actual number. Deep breaths and I'm crossing everything for you.
This is promising. Do you remember how many dpi you were on the first draw?
Thank you everyone so much for continuing to pull for this little bean. It means so much. I all of a sudden feel incredibly alone as the people I cycled with are now mourning lack of success or celebrating pregnancies and I feel like I’m in this excruciating limbo between the two. Your support is keeping me going right now.
I just went and looked at my chart, they were 11 and 15DPO. So the 251 was my 4w mark or close to it.
This is promising. Do you remember how many dpi you were on the first draw?
Thank you everyone so much for continuing to pull for this little bean. It means so much. I all of a sudden feel incredibly alone as the people I cycled with are now mourning lack of success or celebrating pregnancies and I feel like I’m in this excruciating limbo between the two. Your support is keeping me going right now.
I just went and looked at my chart, they were 11 and 15DPO. So the 251 was my 4w mark or close to it.
I was 4w yesterday. Gah. It’s so hard to compare numbers. I want to believe it can work but I’m so scared.
I just went and looked at my chart, they were 11 and 15DPO. So the 251 was my 4w mark or close to it.
I was 4w yesterday. Gah. It’s so hard to compare numbers. I want to believe it can work but I’m so scared.
Girl it's so hard to guess. I could go back through my charts and find a 4w number that was already near 1k that ended on miscarriage and my measly 28 that stuck. I agree with using the "today I am pregnant" mantra and hopefully you see big beautiful reassuring numbers Monday. I totally get it though, it's terrifying. Big big hugs.
Sending you so many good thoughts! Those lines are nice and strong; my CP lines were never anywhere near that.
My mom is a therapist, and has something she used to say to clients that I’ve shared here before. It is so hard to do, but the goal is to not borrow trouble by worrying about things you cannot change. Today you are pregnant, and you have so many of us focusing good thoughts to you that you have great doubling. 💕
Love of my life baby boy born 11/11. One and done not by choice; 3 years of TTC yielded 4 MMC and 2 CPs, through 4 IUIs and 2 IVFs. Focusing on making the world a better place instead...and running.
Thinking of you! I think you just had a late implanter given your positive HPT on Wednesday a number close to 50 on Friday seems like a >60% increase in 48 hours. Take care of yourself this weekend and I’ll be keeping my fingers crossed
Thinking of you! I think you just had a late implanter given your positive HPT on Wednesday a number close to 50 on Friday seems like a >60% increase in 48 hours. Take care of yourself this weekend and I’ll be keeping my fingers crossed