Week of April 22

[msmerymac]

vmars, they found a polyp near the entrance on my HSG in October, but my doctor wasn't concerned about it because of the size and placement.

[vmars]

Apr 26, 2019 10:37:17 GMT -5 msmerymac said:

vmars, they found a polyp near the entrance on my HSG in October, but my doctor wasn't concerned about it because of the size and placement.

My nurse called and wants me to go for monitoring Wednesday am to make sure everything is okay with my doctor. The person doing the scan today was a physicians assistant. He doesn’t think I have a polyp and is hoping it’s just some sort of shadow or whatever.

[lexisgrrl1980]

Starting Lupron yesterday. Finally starting to get more hopeful for this cycle. Fingers crossed this is our cycle.

[ilovecandy]

Apr 25, 2019 19:49:43 GMT -5 vmars said:

Apr 25, 2019 14:09:03 GMT -5 ilovecandy said:

My h's grandma told me at one point I was exercising too much and that was why I wasn't getting pregnant. 😆 I was all ummm thanks for being concerned but my Dr is not concerned with the fact that I run a few miles a days a week and do some weights occasionally.

Also you guys are all better friends than I because if my friend added me to that group I would be distancing myself for a long awhile from that friend knowing that I was going through struggles. Or if my friend was all like just take supplements it will cure/help infertility I would be giving major side eye and distancing for awhile.

The friend who said that to me I have distanced myself some but I do give her a small pass - she’s had a still birth before. She also has had her entire family die young of cancer so I think she is just trying anything she can to stay healthy and worries herself over things like diet and supplements. I know her heart is in the right place but sometimes I am like 🙄

Ahhh yeh I get it. She has gone a tad to far I to that stuff.

[moonriver]

Apr 25, 2019 14:09:03 GMT -5 ilovecandy said:

Apr 25, 2019 11:38:27 GMT -5 joenali said:

Have you tried exercise or essential oils? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

My h's grandma told me at one point I was exercising too much and that was why I wasn't getting pregnant. 😆 I was all ummm thanks for being concerned but my Dr is not concerned with the fact that I run a few miles a days a week and do some weights occasionally.

Also you guys are all better friends than I because if my friend added me to that group I would be distancing myself for a long awhile from that friend knowing that I was going through struggles. Or if my friend was all like just take supplements it will cure/help infertility I would be giving major side eye and distancing for awhile.

She and I have a complicated friendship right now. But also, if I distanced every friend who said dumb shit to me without thinking then I would have no friends. I have good friends that mean well, but people just don’t “get” infertility and I’ve mostly come to accept that.

[ilovecandy]

Apr 26, 2019 18:49:35 GMT -5 moonriver said:

Apr 25, 2019 14:09:03 GMT -5 ilovecandy said:

My h's grandma told me at one point I was exercising too much and that was why I wasn't getting pregnant. 😆 I was all ummm thanks for being concerned but my Dr is not concerned with the fact that I run a few miles a days a week and do some weights occasionally.

Also you guys are all better friends than I because if my friend added me to that group I would be distancing myself for a long awhile from that friend knowing that I was going through struggles. Or if my friend was all like just take supplements it will cure/help infertility I would be giving major side eye and distancing for awhile.

She and I have a complicated friendship right now. But also, if I distanced every friend who said dumb shit to me without thinking then I would have no friends. I have good friends that mean well, but people just don’t “get” infertility and I’ve mostly come to accept that.

There is difference than saying dumb shit and being careless with words. Especially if you have talked with them about infertility before.

My friends sometimes say dumb shit but if we have previously talked about infertility they are usually pretty good about remembering and trying to phrase it as a question when they are curious they know I will always answer them.

My family on the other hand say dumb hurtful dumb shit (my brothers and dad) all the time no matter what we discuss about how to talk about it or things that are hurtful.

But I recognize everyones friendships are different and they are all unique. Plus I wasn't there so I have no idea how it was said or previous conversations or the relationship. Friendships are complicated man.