"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
goldengirlz, I'm so so so terribly sorry. It's been 4 months since my dad passed, if you need to talk or exchange thoughts, I'm here.
My mom and I have been reading "Healing After Loss" - it's short, daily meditations. It talks of God, but it's not very religious. I've found it helpful.
I have kept this book by my bedside since my brother passed 11 years ago. I still turn to it for peace. Thinking of you.