supertrooper1 I don't see why you can't figure out everything, sign the divorce, get it finalized, and then when the money hits your account, you split it up per the agreement. Just because the cash isn't in hand doesn't change how you would be dividing it up, now or a year from now.
Twerk/DDOT: Beau finally let loose on his son's teacher. She tried to blame him today for a bunch of missing work, when in reality, mom pulled son from school for 3 days this week to travel back and forth to visit her fiance. He made it very clear that he is not a part of absence decisions when his son is not here. He also outlined that he's trying to run a failing restaurant business while home schooling, meanwhile at mom's house there's a grandparent there to help handle every second of every day. Beau keeps saying it feels like he's making excuses, but I told him he needs to document these things to protect himself and give the teacher some insight into what's happening. He's not just blowing off worksheets for fun! I'm really proud of him for standing up for himself more and explaining some back story.
Post by supertrooper1 on Apr 9, 2021 13:14:05 GMT -5
twinmomma, phdmomma, my attorney just replied and said she agreed. We can "get creative" was the wording she used. My original attorney had always suggested that we could use the house funds as leverage to leave retirements alone as an upfront payment. So we can always use percentages instead of dollar amounts, which I assume is probably how it would have been written anyway.