@sameoldstory , That's good advice, and don't forget your Roth if you're eligible!
Unfortunately we are completely phased out as a married couple, but if/when we get divorced I'll at least be able to start contributing a reduced amount.
@sameoldstory Not sure if it matters where you put the extra money, but if you are still seriously considering divorce, I would wonder about the best way to protect your new additional income, if you can. I wouldn't want to have to split your 401k, for example, because you will have a lot more in, say 2 years, if you start maxing now and the divorce takes that long to settle, you know?