So I mentioned to a mom that DD is maybe going to have a sleepover party. But then it turned out the daughter didn’t make the list. Not my choice, DD’s choice. Another mom is meeting up with her so now she’s going to know. Also that mom has twins and only 1 is invited so clearly not everyone can come to something super small. I was trying to keep it secret to not hurt feelings but I failed. I feel bad but of course sleepovers have limited numbers. And we kept it on the smaller side.
Anyway I thought inviting them over for a play date would help. Because we still want to hang with them and possibly a sleepover in the future. How would you word the invite? Just pretend nothing happened? Or?
"Hello babies. Welcome to Earth. It's hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It's round and wet and crowded. On the outside, babies, you've got a hundred years here. There's only one rule that I know of, babies-"God damn it, you've got to be kind.”
Yeah I think I messed up the way I phrased it to the person. It was supposed to be a conversation about sleepovers in general not tied to anything specific. I will just invite for a play date and if they hit it off progress to a sleepover.