Is this your first child? I 100% agree. I know I am likely an exception but I had a very easy postpartum recovery both physically and mentally. I could have likely gone back to work very easily after 2 weeks. However, that 22 weeks was so glorious. To be honest the newborn time was kind of boring (I enjoy my daughter more these days cause she’s so fun!) but I feel so lucky to have had those 22 weeks with her (and my partner) and wouldn’t have wanted anything different. It was so great to not have to work at all and just focus on me/our family. Now if I also had a new board and toddler at home I might feel a little different
I Hope you get the job and that you can negotiate to get the full leave! Even though my org is family friendly I know that due to HR stuff leave like being paid is non negotiable but I hope that’s not the case for you!