I told H about Sloan too, b/c he is planning on getting a vasectomy soon after the baby is born. He said, "well, I guess I'll still get it, and you can still take birth control, and we'll just hope for the best with the double protection."
great.
All of this makes me nervous/scared for our future.
don't worry. it is an extremely rare scenario. after the vasectomy make sure your h gets the initial test and then continues to get checked every 2-3 years.
eta: also, you can still keep track of your cycle and avoid during fertile days.
I think I have a cold sore. I've never had one before and not kissing my kid is killing me.
My H left me no less than 3 love notes around the house this morning before he left for work. He also started the dishwasher, put away the dishes in the sink and let the dogs out. He has been in a funk for the last couple of months and I really hope this is a sign that he is turning a corner.
Between papie and sloane, I'm getting paranoid. I have an IUD and H had a vasectomy, but it just seems like I will always live in fear of a third pregnancy. Yes, in my head I'm making this all about me Seriously, I'm hoping for the best outcomes for you both. It must be scary.
Thanks to those who gave me coffee making tips the other day. My mornings have been much more enjoyable thanks to you.
I find out I am pg last night and boom the symptoms start today. I am EXHAUSTED, nausea, hungry at the same time. My mind is really messing with me today
I was telling DH about sloan's BFP. It was relevant because I've been hounding him to make moves towards getting a vasectomy. Anyhow, it came up that neither of us are completely opposed to having a third. I would seriously love a third, but question my ability to handle three. Oh yeah, and the whole being able to afford three thing.
I told H about sloane's BFP too. We are just starting to have kids so not thinking of vasectomy yet, but just a crazy story. I hope things turn out well for her.
Aw thanks. I am okay today. In a fog, in a haze, and everyone at work is like "you okay? you are not yourself today" to which I reply "Ya I think I am coming down with something"... a baby perhaps. OMG.. even when I say it I can't believe it.
I fucking love this weather. Rainy and cloudy and chilly. I definitely do not get S.A.D. If anything the summer heat bums me out more than rain.
I made Jaylea's beef stew last night with some minor variations and it was deeeeeelicious. Leftovers for lunch today.
I bought those boots everyone hated yesterday. Suck it hataz! Can't wait to get them.
I got the last 3 accessories for my Halloween outfit yesterday. I still think people won't realize who I'm supposed to be but whatever, I'll be drunk and so will they. Good times.
I don't work Fridays and H took the day off. So we get two Saturdays! Usually I run errands and clean house on Fridays, but my stupid effing period is here in all her horrendous glory so the heating pad, couch, peanut m&ms and I are BFFs today.
I accidentally left my big, beautiful aloe vera outside and forgot about it. Now it's all frost bitten. I hope he doesn't die. I've had that thing for 6 years :-(
My h said I was sleep talking about sex last night. God I hope that isn't true because 99% of the time, I don't dream about him.