Freaky sex? Possibly tmi

[angieawesome]

So I mentioned in ffc that me and new guy are having the hottest freakiest sex I've ever had. I draw the line at threesomes, and that's only because I really like him. The idea if being double teamed by two men is rather appealing but more of a fantasy than something I'd actually do. Where do you draw the line when it comes to freakiness? A big one for us has been sex in public and using toys on each other. Also I've never been "the up the butt girl" lol but with him I don't know it's just so hot! Sorry if any if this is tmi, I'm just curious.

[GilliC]

I'm not really into BDSM. Anything short of that is fine by me if I feel secure and comfortable with the situation.

My sex-in-unusual-places ("like the back of a Volkswagon") inclination has definitely dwindled with age. Now it just seems like too much bother.

[achase123]

With the right partner I'd be willing to try a lot of things. I definitely wouldn't be into threesomes because I have too much of the green eyed monster in me.

I've become WAY more adventurous since my divorce and having different partners. I definitely like some kinkier things than I used to but am probably pretty mild compared to some. I have a hard time if I feel like there's no emotion involved. Sometimes I think I can handle it but then I realize I cannot. And I would like to learn that you can have the freaky sex with someone you are actually emotionally into, and just use it as another way to change things up. Sometimes I get a little "turned off" if I think they are to into the "fucking" role as opposed to there being an emotional connection.

[stephbfan]

How to draw the line? hmm I dont know. Last week I tried something that I said I would never do . It felt good lol.
As long as you feel comfortable go for it and yay for you for having good sex!

[hobs209]

Well... I'm active in the BDSM scene sooo my limits might be different but A and I did have a very clear discussion about this prior to having sex. Hard limits: blood, defecation. Soft limits: fire, electricity.

[roselis]

Each person is different. I enjoy BDSM. Others won't go anywhere near it. My limits kinda mirror hobs on this one.

[marigoldgirl]

I know how you feel about liking things with a new guy that you did not like with someone else. I had very vanilla unsatisfying sex with XH. Now with BF I am doing and enjoying all kinds of things that I would never touch with XH. I know that it is because I trust BF like I never trusted XH. I am also older so most of my inhibitions have left me. Enjoy!