Update* Newbie Budget-tried talking to H

Okay, so I know after I tell all of you this my husband is surely going to look even worse than he did from the previous post.

Also, some of you were asking about my previous CC debt. It was about $1500 and most of it was stuff I had charged from our wedding; favors, invitations, etc.

Some more back story: H is planning on cashing out his 401K from his previous job *yes, probably a huge MM no no but I tried talking him out of it and it was no use*

Anyway, he'll get about $9K in cash and he wants to put in a savings account to gain interest (also to have as a cushion if we were to have any type of emergeny; good, right??). So then I suggest that maybe he could use some of that money to help me pay my student loans since my interest rate on those loans is higher than what he'll earn in a savings account. He then blows his lid and starts yelling at me, says, and I quote:
"If you ever think my money is your money I'll divorce you tomorrow."

I let it go after that, all I said was "I don't want your money."

Five minutes later he apologized for yelling at me but we didn't discuss the money situation any further.


In other news: I just got my first paycheck of the year and it went down $40.