f/u to dating a paralyzed man post

[lovelybb]

Go for it! At least you might make a friend out of it!

[bullygirl979]

Yeah, you never know what the circumstances are. They may have been separated for a while.

I think it awesome you are going out with him as you never know!! Remind me...paralyzed from the waist down?

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MCC, just wanted to say that I think you're awesome! As PP said, he probably does get overlooked a lot, and I know when you posted before a lot of people said they may feel uncomfortable with it, so I admire you for just going for it!

[bullygirl979]

Dec 5, 2012 10:37:29 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Dec 5, 2012 10:35:39 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Yeah, you never know what the circumstances are. They may have been separated for a while.

I think it awesome you are going out with him as you never know!! Remind me...paralyzed from the waist down?

Yes, from a fall. I know from my stalking that he has an elevator in his house, is back to work full time, takes care of his daughter (baths) and does stuff around the house (painting, changing water heater parts, etc.). Not sure how to ask if he poops in a bag and can have the sex though

How old is his daughter and how long ago was the fall? I guess what I am getting at is if the birth happened after the fall, pretty good guess that he can have sex

[wrathofkuus]

Yeah, the sex question is a big one. I'd think it'd have been less awkward to ask over the internet before you met, as a weeder question, than it is to ask after meeting, but what do I know?

[wrathofkuus]

Duude. Just ask.

[rikkiandjulie]

I'd be surprised if he was 100% paralyzed. Does he have someone that comes to help him out, I mean if he had no function from the waist down, he'd need an extra hand right? I bet he can have sex and jack off with the best of em. Hell we all know Artie in Glee gets down... Ok I'm done.


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[bullygirl979]

Dec 5, 2012 10:45:20 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Dec 5, 2012 10:42:58 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

How old is his daughter and how long ago was the fall? I guess what I am getting at is if the birth happened after the fall, pretty good guess that he can have sex

Birth was before the fall, but I did open the door when he asked what I wanted out of dating and I said "I'm not looking for a husband and father of my kids just yet" and the he asked me out and said "If you want to have dinner, coffee or just get married and have kids, let me know" so there's hope!

I've *heard* that viagara works in these cases but I can't say with 100% certainty.

[starburst604]

I'm sure he gets asked about it by women a lot, he probably won't mind if you do. Maybe he's got some freaky chair positions worked out.

[kaneen]

Dec 5, 2012 11:24:50 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Dec 5, 2012 11:06:26 GMT -5 wrathofkuus said:

Duude. Just ask.

I asked. If he thinks I'm a dick, I'm blaming you

What are you gonna say? Kuus, this girl I know from the interwebz just told me to ask so get mad at her, not me! ;D

[wrathofkuus]

I am waiting with bated breath for the answer.

[rikkiandjulie]

I wanna know too!


Rikki-iPhone

[jojoandleo]

Dec 5, 2012 11:32:48 GMT -5 wrathofkuus said:

I am waiting with bated breath for the answer.

LOL-me too. Refreshing over and over. I bet he gets asked that a lot. He should probably put a disclaimer on his profile

"I love to read and my penis does work."

[kaneen]

I was teasing you, by the way. Hope you got that!

I'm also in the dying to know the answer camp!

[baa1981]

Damn it, every time i see that MCC was the last to comment I keep hoping it's with his answer!

[starburst604]

Dec 5, 2012 11:55:54 GMT -5 baa1981 said:

Damn it, every time i see that MCC was the last to comment I keep hoping it's with his answer!

Twinsies! i was just gonna write the same thing haha!

[bullygirl979]

Dec 5, 2012 11:56:45 GMT -5 starburst604 said:

Dec 5, 2012 11:55:54 GMT -5 baa1981 said:

Damn it, every time i see that MCC was the last to comment I keep hoping it's with his answer!

Twinsies! i was just gonna write the same thing haha!

Haha!! Me three!

[starburst604]

WTF MCC, did you send the question via carrier pigeon? Why don't we have an answer yet. <pout>

[rikkiandjulie]

Dec 5, 2012 12:56:52 GMT -5 starburst604 said:

WTF MCC, did you send the question via carrier pigeon? Why don't we have an answer yet. <pout>

Lol!


Rikki-iPhone

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MCC I bet he's a lot of fun. It seems like a lot of people who have disabilities are really humble and happy to be alive. Plus wheelchair sex could be an awesome add to the fuck it list LOL.

[jojoandleo]

Dec 5, 2012 13:15:12 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Dec 5, 2012 12:56:52 GMT -5 starburst604 said:

WTF MCC, did you send the question via carrier pigeon? Why don't we have an answer yet. <pout>

I'm still waiting and didn't wanna post and get you all excited. It's killing me!!!!

GAH!!! SUCH A TEASE!

[rikkiandjulie]

Updates yet...


Rikki-iPhone

[jojoandleo]

Dec 5, 2012 16:09:38 GMT -5 FormerlyRR said:

There is a positive to no peen action, the focus becomes YOU. Imjustsayin'.

As a FWB-I agree.

As a partner, I'd feel guilty if I got off and he never did. It would lead to disparity.

[achase123]

Dec 5, 2012 16:15:33 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Dec 5, 2012 16:11:53 GMT -5 rikkiandjulie said:

Updates yet...


Rikki-iPhone

None I think he hates me and can't get it up

Sorry lshoes, but after a marriage of no peen action, I can't be with someone who can't have intercourse with me.

I wonder if he can't and that's why he's not replying

[rikkiandjulie]

Dec 5, 2012 16:16:48 GMT -5 achase123 said:

Dec 5, 2012 16:15:33 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

None I think he hates me and can't get it up

Sorry lshoes, but after a marriage of no peen action, I can't be with someone who can't have intercourse with me.

I wonder if he can't and that's why he's not replying

I'm sure the guy can, he's probably just too turned on because someone cared enough to ask. That he's taking some "me" time.


Rikki-iPhone

[rikkiandjulie]

Okay, so after reading this I am sure the man can still get hard in one way or another so you can have the peen. ;-)

www.christopherreeve.org/site/c.mtKZKgMWKwG/b.4453431/k.A0C5/Sexuality_for_Men.htm


Rikki-iPhone

[achase123]

Dec 5, 2012 16:20:34 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Dec 5, 2012 16:16:48 GMT -5 achase123 said:

I wonder if he can't and that's why he's not replying

I think so now I feel like an awful person

Hey, it's a legitimate question! Don't feel bad, you need the penis, I understand!

[cheeseandcrackers]

Don't freak yet, maybe he is busy or his phone died or something.

[rikkiandjulie]

He will reply. I'm confident. He has a daughter right? He's probably just busy, and maybe doesn't have a smartphone.



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[jojoandleo]

DAMMIT KUUS!!!!!

text message? Email? if it was text, yeah, I'd say he is pissed. Email, may not have seen it yet. Either way, It was a legit question and I would be surprised if it has never been asked before. Sex is a big part of a relationship!