I will never be able to drink with anyone from MM except for maybe blessed because I love and still order Malibu and pineapple, Malibu bay breezes and white zin on a pretty regular basis. And the only beer I've ever tolerated is a strawberry beer.
pretty much the only thing i drink is malibu & pineapple.. unless i'm drinking Angry Orchard Apple Cider ... but my mixed drink of choice is Malibu & pineapple.. lame
Post by mccallister84 on Dec 7, 2012 10:40:14 GMT -5
Glad to see people will still let me be their drinking buddy! And a cosmo is my go to "grown up drink." I promise I don't bring white zin to dinner parties!!!
One of my colleagues has a great sense of humor and totally reminds me of the male version of myself. I regularly ask him to join us for lunch or drinks and have been turned down every time, even though mutual friends join. I confessed today that I've never tried so hard to be friends with someone and got a lame it's not you, I just don't want to be close to people here speech. I can't believe I admitted this and basically got rejected again. I don't really know what my motivation was for admitting my frustration but now I'm rejected AND feeling sort of pathetic. I've never wanted to be friends with someone and have them not accept since probably middle school. Awkward.
My theory is that he is attracted to you, so he is keeping safe distance between you.
Possible. My work bestie thinks he likes me. Why is it so hard to make platonic friends with guys? Or, make friends period when you're an adult?
One of my colleagues has a great sense of humor and totally reminds me of the male version of myself. I regularly ask him to join us for lunch or drinks and have been turned down every time, even though mutual friends join. I confessed today that I've never tried so hard to be friends with someone and got a lame it's not you, I just don't want to be close to people here speech. I can't believe I admitted this and basically got rejected again. I don't really know what my motivation was for admitting my frustration but now I'm rejected AND feeling sort of pathetic. I've never wanted to be friends with someone and have them not accept since probably middle school. Awkward.
He's kind of weird. lol If it helps, I think you're awesome.