Post by HoneySpider on Dec 7, 2012 10:16:53 GMT -5
I know this really isn't the "right" place to post this since this is the GETTING pregnant board, but since I talk to you guys every day I wanted to share my update.
We had our first ultrasound yesterday. It did not go well
When the tech did the ultrasound the baby was measuring about a week and a half behind, which I knew wasn't a good sign. She couldn't do the NT scan as planned because it was too small.
Met with the doctor next and she explained it in more detail. There is swelling around the brain, neck, and very badly on the spine. She said this is usually an indicator of a chromosomal abnormality that is incompatible with life. They took blood for the MaterniT21 test and we'll find out the results next week as well as meet with a specialist.
Although there is a slim chance it could work itself out, the outlook is not good. We're likely looking at having to terminate.
ETA: Thank you everyone so much for your kind words and offers to talk, it means a lot to me. I found out we see the specialist Wed afternoon so we should have a better idea of what we're looking at then. I'm just trying my best to hold it together right now but being in limbo is so hard.
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oh my gosh Honey I literally started to cry, I am SO sorry to hear this news. Please feel free to pm if you need/want to, I'm praying for you guys and thinking of you.
I am so, so sorry. The waiting and not knowing is really difficult. You and baby are in my thoughts, and I hope a little Christmas miracle comes through for you here. Please update us. You are always welcome on ths board.
Oh, I'm so sorry. Please be kind to yourself and remember there is nothing you could have done to prevent this. Try not to feel guilty. Take care of yourself. :hugs: