Okay that makes me feel a bit better. It was really fun and I was glad to see he had more of an aggressive side to him because I was afraid he'd be the guy who wanted to "make love" ICK!
Also I'm a little scared of his penis. It was huge. I'm worried about what it might do to me.
/dead.
pdx, you are my hero today.
hahahaha YAY! Okay i'm feeling less guilty about my actions now.
I am so tempted to ask my brother when the wedding is, just to get his reaction.
I would probably do this because I'm a bitch like that and this girl clearly knows you can see her stuff. I'd just be like, "hey bro, why didn't you tell us girlfriend and you were planning a wedding."
But the family dramz is probably not worth it.
That's a nice way to bring it up. Hmm...I like that...
She already thinks I am a bitch bc I don't kiss her ass like everyone else in her life. So I try not to give her more fuel for the fire, to avoid the drama.
She is so spoiled and I honestly don't think she has ever worked a day in her life. She just follows my brother around (he is in the military - even before they were in an actual relationship and before the baby), she just dropped her life for him, dropped out of school, etc. It is hard for me to respect this. I totally get wanting to be with your man, but you must still have a life and identity of your own.
She literally "told on me" to my little brother for disagreeing with her, behind my back of course. "Wah, your sister is being mean to me, wah. I can't believe she said this to me". Not only that, but apparently she talks shit about me behind my back TO MY OWN FAMILY!
Wow, I guess I had a lot to get out...obviously she gets under my skin.
Former FWB messaged me just to say she had been out with this "incredibly awesome" guy and "hadn't felt this strong of a connection with a man in 5 years". I should have just ignored her but I was bored and responded with "So I assume you are contacting me because you want to fuck me so you can remember what awesome sex is like?" She didn't respond. 30 minutes later she knocks on my door, I inviter her in. We have our usual awesome sex, she leaves. I need flamed.
I don't think it's flameworthy. Most of the ladies around here get high fives for FWBs. Although your situation is a little sticky because she clearly likes you and you're still banging her.
Just don't complain to us when she goes crazy again!
No no no-You get high fives for a FWB who KNOWS and AGREES to the terms-this woman CLEARLY has feelings for him, and is NOT happy being FWB. This is leading her on and TOTALLY flameworthy. In fact, I flamed one of the girls on here for the SAME THING (even though others gave her high fives, i don't agree with that).
Leading someone on for sex when you know they have feelings for you is flameworthy. period. Guy or girl. Find someone who also just wants to fuck if you want a FWB.
Jm knows this, he also knows this girl is going to continue to pursue him because he continues to take her bait. At this point, the girl knows better and has fault as well, but she OBVIOUSLY has low self esteem and I just feel bad for her and wish JM would just cut her off and let her go rather than pulling her back in over and over.
Granted, I used to BE this low self esteem girl where guys who wanted to fuck me and not have a real relationship just fucking kept me hanging on and I was too weak to walk away. i pulled this texting shit. it sucks to be that girl. So, yeah, I am taking it a bit personally, BUT-I would and HAVE said the EXACT SAME THING when a girl does it to a guy.
I live in Ohio and if you get pulled over and get a DUI, they give you these bright yellow license plates for your car that you have to use for at least 6 months. I call them party plates and I laugh at the dummies who who have them.
So you were more concerned with the possibility of having a “party plate” then you were with, I dunno, injuring or KILLING someone else or yourself?
Oh, and sorry JM, but my codependent self ALWAYS told guys they were awesome in bed/had huge dicks when it was all just meh to okay. She could be lying to you because she just is desperate to really date you.
Yea but usually you don't tell your FWB about how awesome the guy is.
She was trying to make you jealous, JM.
Yep. I knew exactly what she was doing. I turned it around on her with my comment, and then she turned it around on me by showing up at my house looking hot.
I live in Ohio and if you get pulled over and get a DUI, they give you these bright yellow license plates for your car that you have to use for at least 6 months. I call them party plates and I laugh at the dummies who who have them.
I don't think it is the party plates that she is referencing here, but the fact that you drove home drunk...just a guess...
I live in Ohio and if you get pulled over and get a DUI, they give you these bright yellow license plates for your car that you have to use for at least 6 months. I call them party plates and I laugh at the dummies who who have them.
So you were more concerned with the possibility of having a “party plate” then you were with, I dunno, injuring or KILLING someone else or yourself?
Yep. I knew exactly what she was doing. I turned it around on her with my comment, and then she turned it around on me by showing up at my house looking hot.
So who won, mutha fucka?
play with fire = get burned
And I agree with Jojo. You know she wants more than FWB and that is why I am flaming you. Get some ass, but from someone who doesn't want to date you.
I went out after work yesterday and drank a little too much. Too much that while I remember driving home, Im not quite sure of the route I took. Im really mad at myself, I should have just left my car there and went home with my fiance. I dont want to be driving around town with "party plates" and I know better!
You should be mad and your concern should NOT be "party plates" it SHOULD be that you put YOUR life and others at risk ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAD OTHER VIABLE OPTIONS READILY AVAILABLE!
I don't think it's flameworthy. Most of the ladies around here get high fives for FWBs. Although your situation is a little sticky because she clearly likes you and you're still banging her.
Just don't complain to us when she goes crazy again!
No no no-You get high fives for a FWB who KNOWS and AGREES to the terms-this woman CLEARLY has feelings for him, and is NOT happy being FWB. This is leading her on and TOTALLY flameworthy. In fact, I flamed one of the girls on here for the SAME THING (even though others gave her high fives, i don't agree with that).
Leading someone on for sex when you know they have feelings for you is flameworthy. period. Guy or girl. Find someone who also just wants to fuck if you want a FWB.
Jm knows this, he also knows this girl is going to continue to pursue him because he continues to take her bait. At this point, the girl knows better and has fault as well, but she OBVIOUSLY has low self esteem and I just feel bad for her and wish JM would just cut her off and let her go rather than pulling her back in over and over.
Granted, I used to BE this low self esteem girl where guys who wanted to fuck me and not have a real relationship just fucking kept me hanging on and I was too weak to walk away. i pulled this texting shit. it sucks to be that girl. So, yeah, I am taking it a bit personally, BUT-I would and HAVE said the EXACT SAME THING when a girl does it to a guy.
Meh. JM's not leading her on. He was honest with her. If she has personal issues that make her think she has a chance and she keeps pursuing him, that's her problem. He's not telling her there's a possibility of something between them, or lying to her about anything.
Oh, and sorry JM, but my codependent self ALWAYS told guys they were awesome in bed/had huge dicks when it was all just meh to okay. She could be lying to you because she just is desperate to really date you.
I get irrationally annoyed that BK always seems to blatantly ignore questions that are directed to her…in posts that she starts.
And get's upset or tells us it's none of our business when we question why she never answers. THEN DON'T POST ABOUT IT!
Same with MissBetty-you don't want questions, DON'T FUCKING BRING IT UP!
Le sigh.
I ALSO am really concerned about BK, having grown up with an alcoholic, I know the damaging effects it can have on a child and I KNOW how much a relapse hurts everyone. Bankruptcy, losing your home, IRS calls harassing your family, it is SUCH a rough life to live with an alcoholic. I don't know why she would CHOOSE that when she has so much going on in her life, why take on a fixer upper? LET him get help, let him be sober FOR AT LEAST A YEAR and then consider dating him. I like BK, but this is a BAD decision. BAD.
(I like a lot of the people here who make bad decisions, they just annoy me. I only dislike the racist/intolerant asshats)
I went out after work yesterday and drank a little too much. Too much that while I remember driving home, Im not quite sure of the route I took. Im really mad at myself, I should have just left my car there and went home with my fiance. I dont want to be driving around town with "party plates" and I know better!
You should be mad and your concern should NOT be "party plates" it SHOULD be that you put YOUR life and others at risk ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAD OTHER VIABLE OPTIONS READILY AVAILABLE!
I 100% agree with you and that is why Im mad at myself.
No no no-You get high fives for a FWB who KNOWS and AGREES to the terms-this woman CLEARLY has feelings for him, and is NOT happy being FWB. This is leading her on and TOTALLY flameworthy. In fact, I flamed one of the girls on here for the SAME THING (even though others gave her high fives, i don't agree with that).
Leading someone on for sex when you know they have feelings for you is flameworthy. period. Guy or girl. Find someone who also just wants to fuck if you want a FWB.
Jm knows this, he also knows this girl is going to continue to pursue him because he continues to take her bait. At this point, the girl knows better and has fault as well, but she OBVIOUSLY has low self esteem and I just feel bad for her and wish JM would just cut her off and let her go rather than pulling her back in over and over.
Granted, I used to BE this low self esteem girl where guys who wanted to fuck me and not have a real relationship just fucking kept me hanging on and I was too weak to walk away. i pulled this texting shit. it sucks to be that girl. So, yeah, I am taking it a bit personally, BUT-I would and HAVE said the EXACT SAME THING when a girl does it to a guy.
Meh. JM's not leading her on. He was honest with her. If she has personal issues that make her think she has a chance and she keeps pursuing him, that's her problem. He's not telling her there's a possibility of something between them, or lying to her about anything.
1000% disagree. he is HONEST with her, but using her for sex ANYWAY is NOT HONEST. He is giving her hope AND HE KNOWS IT! Why not let her go if you don't want her and find someone who just wants sex? He is using her. Period.
Oh, and sorry JM, but my codependent self ALWAYS told guys they were awesome in bed/had huge dicks when it was all just meh to okay. She could be lying to you because she just is desperate to really date you.
I don't think it's flameworthy. Most of the ladies around here get high fives for FWBs. Although your situation is a little sticky because she clearly likes you and you're still banging her.
Just don't complain to us when she goes crazy again!
No no no-You get high fives for a FWB who KNOWS and AGREES to the terms-this woman CLEARLY has feelings for him, and is NOT happy being FWB. This is leading her on and TOTALLY flameworthy. In fact, I flamed one of the girls on here for the SAME THING (even though others gave her high fives, i don't agree with that).
Leading someone on for sex when you know they have feelings for you is flameworthy. period. Guy or girl. Find someone who also just wants to fuck if you want a FWB.
Jm knows this, he also knows this girl is going to continue to pursue him because he continues to take her bait. At this point, the girl knows better and has fault as well, but she OBVIOUSLY has low self esteem and I just feel bad for her and wish JM would just cut her off and let her go rather than pulling her back in over and over.
Granted, I used to BE this low self esteem girl where guys who wanted to fuck me and not have a real relationship just fucking kept me hanging on and I was too weak to walk away. i pulled this texting shit. it sucks to be that girl. So, yeah, I am taking it a bit personally, BUT-I would and HAVE said the EXACT SAME THING when a girl does it to a guy.
I don't see how I am leading her on when I have not contacted her since I ended it. She reached out to me. She showed up at my door horny as hell and wanting to get fucked. She got what she wanted.
I realize I have some fault here but dont paint me as some sleezy player telling women what they want to hear so I can get laid. That is complete bull-shit and not me..at all. If you knew me IRL you would agree.
You did contact her, by responding. You know she has feelings, you knew she was trying to make you jealous and you took the bait. You know that. yes you were horny and she has fault as well, I am not denying that. but you can't just say "I was innocent!" You KNOW what she wants and you KNOW by contacting her you were giving her hope. I don't think you are a sleaze, but I do think this was a bad choice, and I do find it flameful, and so do you, hence why you posted. AND, like I said, I take it personally, having been the crazy girl
No no no-You get high fives for a FWB who KNOWS and AGREES to the terms-this woman CLEARLY has feelings for him, and is NOT happy being FWB. This is leading her on and TOTALLY flameworthy. In fact, I flamed one of the girls on here for the SAME THING (even though others gave her high fives, i don't agree with that).
Leading someone on for sex when you know they have feelings for you is flameworthy. period. Guy or girl. Find someone who also just wants to fuck if you want a FWB.
Jm knows this, he also knows this girl is going to continue to pursue him because he continues to take her bait. At this point, the girl knows better and has fault as well, but she OBVIOUSLY has low self esteem and I just feel bad for her and wish JM would just cut her off and let her go rather than pulling her back in over and over.
Granted, I used to BE this low self esteem girl where guys who wanted to fuck me and not have a real relationship just fucking kept me hanging on and I was too weak to walk away. i pulled this texting shit. it sucks to be that girl. So, yeah, I am taking it a bit personally, BUT-I would and HAVE said the EXACT SAME THING when a girl does it to a guy.
Meh. JM's not leading her on. He was honest with her. If she has personal issues that make her think she has a chance and she keeps pursuing him, that's her problem. He's not telling her there's a possibility of something between them, or lying to her about anything.
Doing physical things with an emotionally unstable person WILL become his problem when she cuts his "bunny up into little pieces"...that's why PP are trying to tell him to leave her alone...
No no no-You get high fives for a FWB who KNOWS and AGREES to the terms-this woman CLEARLY has feelings for him, and is NOT happy being FWB. This is leading her on and TOTALLY flameworthy. In fact, I flamed one of the girls on here for the SAME THING (even though others gave her high fives, i don't agree with that).
Leading someone on for sex when you know they have feelings for you is flameworthy. period. Guy or girl. Find someone who also just wants to fuck if you want a FWB.
Jm knows this, he also knows this girl is going to continue to pursue him because he continues to take her bait. At this point, the girl knows better and has fault as well, but she OBVIOUSLY has low self esteem and I just feel bad for her and wish JM would just cut her off and let her go rather than pulling her back in over and over.
Granted, I used to BE this low self esteem girl where guys who wanted to fuck me and not have a real relationship just fucking kept me hanging on and I was too weak to walk away. i pulled this texting shit. it sucks to be that girl. So, yeah, I am taking it a bit personally, BUT-I would and HAVE said the EXACT SAME THING when a girl does it to a guy.
I don't see how I am leading her on when I have not contacted her since I ended it. She reached out to me. She showed up at my door horny as hell and wanting to get fucked. She got what she wanted.
I realize I have some fault here but dont paint me as some sleezy player telling women what they want to hear so I can get laid. That is complete bull-shit and not me..at all. If you knew me IRL you would agree.
I guess I just can't imagine sleeping with someone that I knew had strong feelings for me if I had no feelings for them at all. That (to me) is just very cruel.
I get irrationally annoyed that BK always seems to blatantly ignore questions that are directed to her…in posts that she starts.
And get's upset or tells us it's none of our business when we question why she never answers. THEN DON'T POST ABOUT IT!
Same with MissBetty-you don't want questions, DON'T FUCKING BRING IT UP!
Le sigh.
I ALSO am really concerned about BK, having grown up with an alcoholic, I know the damaging effects it can have on a child and I KNOW how much a relapse hurts everyone. Bankruptcy, losing your home, IRS calls harassing your family, it is SUCH a rough life to live with an alcoholic. I don't know why she would CHOOSE that when she has so much going on in her life, why take on a fixer upper? LET him get help, let him be sober FOR AT LEAST A YEAR and then consider dating him. I like BK, but this is a BAD decision. BAD.
(I like a lot of the people here who make bad decisions, they just annoy me. I only dislike the racist/intolerant asshats)
Yes, That's why I ask her every time she posts if her BF is in AA yet. I know she won't answer, but I hope just seeing that we are asking makes her think about it at least. Last time I talked to her about it he was not in AA, but he had "quit drinking" (for two weeks). I think it's really irresponsible of her to let this guy around her son. I like BK, she's a sweet chick, but she is letting her feelings for this guy cloud her judgement. I just hope her son gets through this unscathed.
I don't see how I am leading her on when I have not contacted her since I ended it. She reached out to me. She showed up at my door horny as hell and wanting to get fucked. She got what she wanted.
I realize I have some fault here but dont paint me as some sleezy player telling women what they want to hear so I can get laid. That is complete bull-shit and not me..at all. If you knew me IRL you would agree.
I guess I just can't imagine sleeping with someone that I knew had strong feelings for me if I had no feelings for them at all. That (to me) is just very cruel.
Yep. And I said the SAME THING when a girl did it to a guy.