Post by udscoobychick on Dec 7, 2012 10:42:41 GMT -5
MCC, my two closest girlfriends in my town are in their 50s. The group of friends that I go out with weekly ranges from 21 to upper 50s. No judgements here!
Post by bullygirl979 on Dec 7, 2012 11:26:14 GMT -5
I had my work holiday party last night. I had, um, like 4 or 5 martinis and was a little drunk when I left. I looked super hot so I called up my FWB and went to his house for Ah-MAZ-ing sex. I feel a little bad cause I am digging AB but I am not willing to put all my eggs in one basket yet.
And my 2nd: XBF left the company last week so the rest of us had to absorb his caseload. I may or my not have thrown him under the bus several times to the boss on shit he was fucking up on but never told anyone about. Oops!
Post by DirtyMartini on Dec 7, 2012 11:29:52 GMT -5
I still live with my H. I have filed for divorce (court date TBA) and he won't leave (he cheated...) until the temporary orders come into effect, although he wants me to "suspend" those, I don't even know if I have that power...
MY FCCC is that I want to have sex. Dirty, nasty, fun, sweaty sex. Not with H either. I have no one in mind, but man I get hornier every day!
I said something to BF last night that made me sound totally insecure. Don't want to go into details cause it will take too long to explain but suffice to say, I'm kicking myself today because I hate sounding like an insecure person.
I am really really really jealous of everyone who finds nice guys to date so quickly and easily.
I want to be the Bachelorette
I used to say that I would never ever never go on the Bachelor (who willingingly signs up to compete over a guy!??!) but that I'd be the Bachelorette in a heartbeat!
I just want to go on the trips and the dates... I don't think it would really work out long term
That and all the great clothes!
Oh, and another one...I work from home and hate it! I know plenty of people would kill for this set up but it's driving me crazy to never have any interaction. I'm cooped up in my house all day long and it's making me nutso.
I don't know if it's my BC pill or what but I have cried every single day this week. I never cry usually. I am a mess and I don't know why. My boyfriend has been awesome but I worry he won't take this crazy lady much longer...I mean I wouldn't. I don't feel like myself at all. I just want to cry and cry and cry.
Oh, and another one...I work from home and hate it! I know plenty of people would kill for this set up but it's driving me crazy to never have any interaction. I'm cooped up in my house all day long and it's making me nutso.
Me too... I am going to work in a coffee shop today because I need to get out!
Me three! I definitely have to get out and either run errands or sit at a coffee shop sometimes!
Sometimes I feel out of touch with the real world. I had no clue what a "hipster" was and had to google it. I had no clue Pink was a VS line. My kids usually have to clue me in on the latest technology...lol.
Former FWB messaged me just to say she had been out with this "incredibly awesome" guy and "hadn't felt this strong of a connection with a man in 5 years". I should have just ignored her but I was bored and responded with "So I assume you are contacting me because you want to fuck me so you can remember what awesome sex is like?" She didn't respond. 30 minutes later she knocks on my door, I inviter her in. We have our usual awesome sex, she leaves. I need flamed.
Former FWB messaged me just to say she had been out with this "incredibly awesome" guy and "hadn't felt this strong of a connection with a man in 5 years". I should have just ignored her but I was bored and responded with "So I assume you are contacting me because you want to fuck me so you can remember what awesome sex is like?" She didn't respond. 30 minutes later she knocks on my door, I inviter her in. We have our usual awesome sex, she leaves. I need flamed.
Former FWB messaged me just to say she had been out with this "incredibly awesome" guy and "hadn't felt this strong of a connection with a man in 5 years". I should have just ignored her but I was bored and responded with "So I assume you are contacting me because you want to fuck me so you can remember what awesome sex is like?" She didn't respond. 30 minutes later she knocks on my door, I inviter her in. We have our usual awesome sex, she leaves. I need flamed.
Why can men not quit the crazy? Not trying to flame you jm, but I find this fascinating...
I used to say that I would never ever never go on the Bachelor (who willingingly signs up to compete over a guy!??!) but that I'd be the Bachelorette in a heartbeat!
One of my sorority sisters was on the Bachelor and then bachelor pad
Who, who, who??? I'm addicted to both shows. There, I said it.
Why can men not quit the crazy? Not trying to flame you jm, but I find this fascinating...
You are right, a lot of men cant. It probably along the same lines of why some women stay with men who are controlling abusive jerks.
I may slip from time to time but for the most part I have no problem distancing myself from crazies, drama queens, and controlling nags.
Kind a funny related story. After FWB and I had sex, we were laying in bed talking. He was relaying his dating adventures and basically said how he is attracted/dates to emotionally unavailable women who have issues. So I started dying laughing and he asked what was so funny. I said "oh, so now I understand why you don't really want to date me."
I always tell Mars how great he's got it that he gets to work from home most days...he implies that it's not THAT great...that might explain why he has talked my ear off over the phone on plenty of occasions after he has worked from home...
My FFFC is that I've been in a funk, I'm not a crier but damn I wish I was, I feel like I would feel so much better if I could get it out...and I'm not talking about a few tears I mean I need a really good cry
Former FWB messaged me just to say she had been out with this "incredibly awesome" guy and "hadn't felt this strong of a connection with a man in 5 years". I should have just ignored her but I was bored and responded with "So I assume you are contacting me because you want to fuck me so you can remember what awesome sex is like?" She didn't respond. 30 minutes later she knocks on my door, I inviter her in. We have our usual awesome sex, she leaves. I need flamed.
This one is bad because it's about my mom. She is overweight. She recently quit smoking. For that, I am really, really proud of her. She had a 40-year habit. But she used it as an excuse to gain even more weight. She is now almost 200 pounds and is only 5'3". She has been exercising to get the weight off, but her exercise is like a mile walk in the evening and she is not increasing it. She has not changed her eating habits. She has high blood pressure, epilepsy, and now just found out she is diabetic. She hardly has any retirement saved and I am afraid I will have to start taking care of her at some point. I imagine if she keeps it up, she will not be able to work within ten years and she is only 57. I don't want to spend the rest of my life taking care of her. I love her dearly, but I am afraid of what my future looks like if she doesn't get some weight off, pronto! I feel like her health decisions are selfish. I realize that makes me selfish, especially since she IS trying and has been smoke free for almost 5 months. But I am really really worried about her weight, diabetes, and high blood pressure!
I am also worried about my mom's health, she is 65 and probably around 200 lbs. Have you talked to her about eating habits, portion control, etc? Also if she lives in your area maybe offer to walk with her and that could motivate for her to increase the intensity a little bit more everytime.
-I'm horny so I'm considering hottie from Sunday night (who plunked half of a crab in front of me and called it dinner) as a FWB.
-I really hate my coworkers husband (whom I've posted about before with the bachelor party/prostitute incident, etc). I saw him at the xmas party and I just loathe him even more. He can probably sense how much I hate him because I'm not good at hiding things. She told me they are TTTC when we were meeting yesterday and I bit my tongue and smiled. I think it's a horrible idea but there's nothing I can say. And she is always telling me that she can't wait until I meet the right person like she has. I know she means well because she genuinely wants to see me in a good relationship but I feel like saying "I don't WANT to meet someone the way you have because your husband is a huge douchebag!"
-last night XH was watching P while I had a dinner for my cattlewomen's group. I got home and he was helping me pick up the house a little because it was a disaster. I'd had a little wine so I was being sassy and I couldn't help but point out that his hair is thinning. He's so vain that he said "I know what do I do???" and was completely freaking out. I am probably going to hell but oh well.
You are right, a lot of men cant. It probably along the same lines of why some women stay with men who are controlling abusive jerks.
I may slip from time to time but for the most part I have no problem distancing myself from crazies, drama queens, and controlling nags.
Kind a funny related story. After FWB and I had sex, we were laying in bed talking. He was relaying his dating adventures and basically said how he is attracted/dates to emotionally unavailable women who have issues. So I started dying laughing and he asked what was so funny. I said "oh, so now I understand why you don't really want to date me."
I have had a similar convo with my FWB too.....he admits he goes for young girls that are BSC!
Former FWB messaged me just to say she had been out with this "incredibly awesome" guy and "hadn't felt this strong of a connection with a man in 5 years". I should have just ignored her but I was bored and responded with "So I assume you are contacting me because you want to fuck me so you can remember what awesome sex is like?" She didn't respond. 30 minutes later she knocks on my door, I inviter her in. We have our usual awesome sex, she leaves. I need flamed.
Wow!
Meh, I know she's kind of crazy, but I don't think this is ALL that flameable. Obviously she is impressed with your skilz. But don't come crying to us if she starts in on the stage five clinger moves again. You asked for it.
Meh, I know she's kind of crazy, but I don't think this is ALL that flameable. Obviously she is impressed with your skilz. But don't come crying to us if she starts in on the stage five clinger moves again. You asked for it.
Haha!! JM emailed me and my words were: if she hacks you up into a million little pieces I am not going to feel bad for you.
Meh, I know she's kind of crazy, but I don't think this is ALL that flameable. Obviously she is impressed with your skilz. But don't come crying to us if she starts in on the stage five clinger moves again. You asked for it.
Deal. I may share some crazy stories for entertainment value, but I wont bitch about it.