Post by jojoandleo on Dec 11, 2012 20:53:16 GMT -5
Um...He should WANT you at ALL his birthday festivities. H and I had been dating 3 weeks when my birthday came up, and my ENTIRE FAMILY was in town for Thanksgiving. He STILL came to ALL my birthday stuff and made friends with my BIL. This is some bullshit. But they say "never make someone a priority who only makes you an option." Fuck him and his glorious penis. i bet it's a prosthetic...
Um...He should WANT you at ALL his birthday festivities. H and I had been dating 3 weeks when my birthday came up, and my ENTIRE FAMILY was in town for Thanksgiving. He STILL came to ALL my birthday stuff and made friends with my BIL. This is some bullshit. But they say "never make someone a priority who only makes you an option." Fuck him and his glorious penis. i bet it's a prosthetic...
I know he moves slower than some - and I was ok with a little slow. But mother fucker, over 8 weeks and we've known each other much longer? I have never felt less wanted than I have the last few weeks. And most of it I took as "Oh MP you're just being silly." Because I can do that sometimes. But this is some serious bullshit. I got a *maybe* for Friday? Seriously? His excuse was "Well I wasn't the one that made plans." I don't care - these are loose plans, it's not like you needed a reservation. So why can't you tell the plan maker that you want me there?
Yup. Did you ask him that and did he answer? I just couldn't imagine being in an exclusive relationship and not wanting my SO at my birthday. Ya know?
I am so sorry. I think you did the right thing though. I would've at least wanted an invite to go celebrate with his friends, you deserve to date someone who wants to spend lots of time with you. ((mp))
Ugh, what an ass. You definitely did the right thing. But I have to ask- do his friends even know you exist? I can't imagine his friends making plans for his birthday and purposely not inviting his girlfriend.
Hmm yeah something isn't right here...he should at this point be inviting you to his b-day festivities. Does his friends even know about you? What is he hiding and why? I think you are making a very good call. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and makes time for you and can have some balls to ask if he can bring you. Ugh this is just wrong on too many levels and you deserve better. You are too awesome for this, seriously. I'm sorry.
Ugh, what an ass. You definitely did the right thing. But I have to ask- do his friends even know you exist? I can't imagine his friends making plans for his birthday and purposely not inviting his girlfriend.
His best friend does. I don't know about the other people in his life.
And semantics but he doesn't consider me his gf. He tells me he wants my babies and sees himself growing old with me, but won't call me a girlfriend. I hate this feeling.
His best friend does. I don't know about the other people in his life.
And semantics but he doesn't consider me his gf. He tells me he wants my babies and sees himself growing old with me, but won't call me a girlfriend. I hate this feeling.
bolded = birthday invite.
That is fucked up. I am sorry, mp.
This all pisses me off. You are beautiful and talented, and he should feel lucky you want to spend time with him.
Sounds like you've been dating my XH! I'd move on, you deserve to feel like a priority to your significant other. I'm sorry cause I know it sucks right now.
Ugh, what an ass. You definitely did the right thing. But I have to ask- do his friends even know you exist? I can't imagine his friends making plans for his birthday and purposely not inviting his girlfriend.
His best friend does. I don't know about the other people in his life.
And semantics but he doesn't consider me his gf. He tells me he wants my babies and sees himself growing old with me, but won't call me a girlfriend. I hate this feeling.
This is a red flag. He has issues and you made the right decision. You shouldn't have to hound him to spend time with you.
I dated a guy who acted like my boyfriend in every sense of the word, but wouldn't call me his girlfriend. We dated for 8 months, and finally around 7 months he started calling me his girlfriend. Let me tell you, he had major commitment issues and I shouldn't have wasted so much time on him.