Something horrible happened today (not to me)

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Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:38:37 GMT -5

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My best friend's husband died of a massive heart attack today. He was 32 years old. I talked to her, she’s in shock, they have two daughters (7 and 5 years old) and they don’t even know yet. They are with her brother and his wife. She is with her dad. She just got home from the hospital.

I was at Target with Ellie when my brother (who was her husband's friend from high school) called…I walked all the way home from Target with Ellie in her stroller sobbing. People were staring at me.

Omg this is awful. I’m trying not to scare Ellie by letting her watch tv in the next room while I silently cry.

Sorry to be a piggyback drama llama and WBCIIY but I can't get in touch with H (he's working at his part time job) and I just need to get it out.

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imoan Senior Member Read my blog, you thundercunts! Posts: 5,378 Likes: 161	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:39:26 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by imoan on Dec 13, 2012 16:39:26 GMT -5 That is so horrible. Your best friend and her family (and you) are in my thoughts. Heartbreaking.
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ralphlauren Elder Posts: 10,675 Likes: 2,128	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:39:28 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ralphlauren on Dec 13, 2012 16:39:28 GMT -5 how sad
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snipsnsnails Elder Posts: 13,893 Likes: 13,796	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:39:56 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by snipsnsnails on Dec 13, 2012 16:39:56 GMT -5 Oh, lila, I'm so sorry. For all of you, especially your friend and her girls.
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cleo29 Elder Posts: 37,423 Likes: 24,522	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:40:05 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by cleo29 on Dec 13, 2012 16:40:05 GMT -5 What an awful, awful thing. I am so sorry for your loss and that of your friend. Those poor girls
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sunflower22 Full Member Posts: 1,047	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:40:21 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sunflower22 on Dec 13, 2012 16:40:21 GMT -5 Wow, that's awful. And scary. Sorry to you and your friend + family
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nahoku Senior Member Posts: 9,360 Likes: 7,018	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:40:22 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by nahoku on Dec 13, 2012 16:40:22 GMT -5 I'm so sorry, lila.
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lilafowler Elder Posts: 24,753 Likes: 52,331	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:40:31 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lilafowler on Dec 13, 2012 16:40:31 GMT -5 He was such a good man and father. He had flaming red hair. I loved him very much. They were soulmates.
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Deleted Posts: 0	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:40:39 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2012 16:40:39 GMT -5 I'm so so sorry.
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Deleted Posts: 0	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:41:03 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2012 16:41:03 GMT -5 I'm so sorry, Lila.
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ProfessorArtNerd Elder Posts: 15,775 Likes: 30,377	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:41:15 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ProfessorArtNerd on Dec 13, 2012 16:41:15 GMT -5 oh god. I'll pray for you all. I'm so sorry that is just devastating news
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laptopvixen Full Member Posts: 4,552 Likes: 90	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:41:19 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by laptopvixen on Dec 13, 2012 16:41:19 GMT -5 omg lila I am so sorry. It's your bff's husband!! That is a big deal. You must be so sad. Can someone watch E for you tonight?
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fuckstick New Member Posts: 0 Likes: 2	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:41:27 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by fuckstick on Dec 13, 2012 16:41:27 GMT -5 Oh my god how awful hug
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morgan2004 Junior Member Posts: 529 Likes: 1	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:42:15 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by morgan2004 on Dec 13, 2012 16:42:15 GMT -5 I don't even know what to say. I am so sorry. That is just heartbreaking and everyones nightmare.
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lilafowler Elder Posts: 24,753 Likes: 52,331	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:42:32 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lilafowler on Dec 13, 2012 16:42:32 GMT -5 Not only is she my BFF-she's Eleanor's GODMOTHER. We're so close. Were so close. OMG. Sorry I'm being ridiculous.
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Deleted Posts: 0	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:42:33 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2012 16:42:33 GMT -5 I'm so sorry
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fuckyourcouch Elder Posts: 18,862 Likes: 29,435	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:42:36 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by fuckyourcouch on Dec 13, 2012 16:42:36 GMT -5 i'm so sorry lila, for her and you. how awful. big hugs.
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shostakovich Senior Member Not Harry Potter. Posts: 6,371 Likes: 10,250	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:42:50 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by shostakovich on Dec 13, 2012 16:42:50 GMT -5 Oh this is just so sad. I'm so, so sorry. Those poor babies.
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stephlove Full Member Posts: 2,773 Likes: 1,597	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:43:43 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by stephlove on Dec 13, 2012 16:43:43 GMT -5 I am so sorry. This must be so hard.
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Deleted Posts: 0	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:43:48 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2012 16:43:48 GMT -5
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jaylea Senior Member Posts: 5,890 Likes: 1,579	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:43:49 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jaylea on Dec 13, 2012 16:43:49 GMT -5 God, Lila. I am so sorry. For you, for her, for their girls, for their families and friends. It's not fair. I'm so sorry.
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thebamker Full Member Posts: 4,411 Likes: 1,242	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:44:01 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by thebamker on Dec 13, 2012 16:44:01 GMT -5 holy crap dude! I'm sorry. wow
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Deleted Posts: 0	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:44:11 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2012 16:44:11 GMT -5 you are not being ridiculous at all. i'm so sorry for you, and of course for your friend and her children.
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lilafowler Elder Posts: 24,753 Likes: 52,331	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:44:55 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lilafowler on Dec 13, 2012 16:44:55 GMT -5 Her oldest daughter was my flower girl when we got married. I know this stuff happens but how the fuck does this happen? Again, I'm sorry.
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jayded Full Member Posts: 1,149 Likes: 112	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:45:03 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jayded on Dec 13, 2012 16:45:03 GMT -5 That is so very sad, his poor girls. :-(
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girlfriday11 Senior Member Posts: 5,356 Likes: 1,301	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:46:40 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by girlfriday11 on Dec 13, 2012 16:46:40 GMT -5 I am so, so sorry.
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AHappierHour Senior Member One glass of champagne and I smile, two and I grin, but three I'm ever so ready to sin. Posts: 8,893 Likes: 4,514	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:46:43 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by AHappierHour on Dec 13, 2012 16:46:43 GMT -5 Oh my.. Im so sorry for your loss.
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papie Elder Posts: 27,466 Likes: 31,394	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:47:19 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by papie on Dec 13, 2012 16:47:19 GMT -5 OMG I am so sorry. I will be keeping that poor woman and her little girls in my thoughts, I can't imagine.
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Deleted Posts: 0	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:47:45 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2012 16:47:45 GMT -5 That poor family, that's heartbreaking. I'm so sorry.
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iamali Senior Member Posts: 9,173 Likes: 7,465	Something horrible happened today (not to me) Dec 13, 2012 16:48:58 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by iamali on Dec 13, 2012 16:48:58 GMT -5 I'm so incredibly sorry. That is awful, awful news. My heart goes out to all of your, esp. your best friend and those little girls.
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