Sunday Bump bullshit

[imoan]

This woman thinks she's been raped. I'm not one for questioning a woman when she says she's been raped... But she LITERALLY has no reason to think this is the case.


m.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/70651015.aspx

[iamgrace]

What the hell.

[joolz]

Nothing about her original post would lead me to believe she has been assaulted in any way. At all.

[imoan]

Exactly! How quick they got pregnant (and how drunk she was a week before) is her ONLY reason to think this?!?! She is absolutely the worst type of woman. She'll ruin sone guy's life with NOTHING to go on.

[sake]

When I was in college I got REALLY drunk a lot of times, and still always knew if I had had sex with someone or not.... Maybe not a lot of details, but it was never a question of did I sleep with anyone last night. That girl is crazy...

[Deleted]

I actually sort of feel bad for rape girl because she seems pretty scared so maybe there's more to the story. Who knows. I wanted to throat punch the person who wrote that she shouldn't punish her child for being the spawn of a rapist though.

This chick, on the other hand, needs a swift kick in the head.

community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/70660227.aspx

[emisi]

Dec 16, 2012 18:55:58 GMT -5 @notquiteblushing said:

I actually sort of feel bad for rape girl because she seems pretty scared so maybe there's more to the story. Who knows. I wanted to throat punch the person who wrote that she shouldn't punish her child for being the spawn of a rapist though.

This chick, on the other hand, needs a swift kick in the head.

community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/70660227.aspx

Why is she staying with her parents, 60 miles from where she is going to deliver?! I would NOT want to be 60 miles away from the hospital!

[sake]

these people have obviously never heard of taxis

[iheartvino]

Dec 16, 2012 18:55:58 GMT -5 @notquiteblushing said:

I actually sort of feel bad for rape girl because she seems pretty scared so maybe there's more to the story. Who knows. I wanted to throat punch the person who wrote that she shouldn't punish her child for being the spawn of a rapist though.

This chick, on the other hand, needs a swift kick in the head.

community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/70660227.aspx

Just don't go on July 13. It's really for the best to just stay away. It is like the incarnation of every bad pregnant stereotype.

[Deleted]

Dec 16, 2012 19:26:39 GMT -5 emisi said:

Dec 16, 2012 18:55:58 GMT -5 @notquiteblushing said:

I actually sort of feel bad for rape girl because she seems pretty scared so maybe there's more to the story. Who knows. I wanted to throat punch the person who wrote that she shouldn't punish her child for being the spawn of a rapist though.

This chick, on the other hand, needs a swift kick in the head.

community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/70660227.aspx

Why is she staying with her parents, 60 miles from where she is going to deliver?! I would NOT want to be 60 miles away from the hospital!

It seems like she is moving to her mom's house for the sole reason of being close to her mother for the delivery. Does not compute.

[Deleted]

My birth month has such a stick up its ass about alcohol.
community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/70679618/ShowThread.aspx#70679618

If you complain about not drinking, you're not grateful enough to be pregnant. Gag me.

[Deleted]

Dec 17, 2012 13:11:42 GMT -5 gravytrain225 said:

I feel bad for this girl, what a mess. community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/70676672.aspx

God, that's sad. The MMer in me wants to know if she's using student loans for culinary school because .

[Deleted]

Dec 17, 2012 14:20:15 GMT -5 @littlemoxie said:

Dec 17, 2012 12:54:11 GMT -5 @tokenhoser said:

My birth month has such a stick up its ass about alcohol.
community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/70679618/ShowThread.aspx#70679618

If you complain about not drinking, you're not grateful enough to be pregnant. Gag me.

You should respond: this isn't a problem for me since I have a glass of wine weekly!

I've already been flamed for admitting I take a sip of DH's beer.

I mean, HOW CAN I TAKE THAT RISK??!!??

[sake]

OMG, the not drinking thing is SO annoying. I have wanted to drink this WHOLE time... and i have had sips here and there, but havent gone all out with a whole glass yet...

I am so tired of people saying "be glad you're pregnant" that is mutually exclusive from missing drinking!!!

[Deleted]

One of the "be glad you're pregnant!" crew also posted in a m/s thread about how much she loves being sick.

Yeah. No. You can hate feeling like shit and still be glad you're pregnant.

[Deleted]

I had champagne on Saturday and it was delightful.

[iheartvino]

Dec 17, 2012 14:31:10 GMT -5 sake said:

OMG, the not drinking thing is SO annoying. I have wanted to drink this WHOLE time... and i have had sips here and there, but havent gone all out with a whole glass yet...

I am so tired of people saying "be glad you're pregnant" that is mutually exclusive from missing drinking!!!

You should probably go to AA if you can't make it 9 months without wanting a drink. 8-D

I really hate it when people say that you should just be happy you're pregnant. I don't think most people would trade their baby for a glass of wine. That doesn't mean you can't miss it, though.

[emisi]

Dec 17, 2012 13:11:42 GMT -5 gravytrain225 said:

I feel bad for this girl, what a mess. community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/70676672.aspx

Geez, the responses to her are terrible. She asks for some suggestions, and they all start piling on and judging, making comments like "tell your lazy bf to go out and get a job." Because it's just that easy right now. I mean, maybe the baby was a mistake, but she's obviously trying to make the best of it. Commenting that she's the sort of person that will go out and get benefits and live large on the taxes of "people like me," as one poster put it, are just unnecessary.

Also, the people getting on their high horse about how if you miss alcohol you obviously aren't glad to be pregnant are just getting an early start on the mommy martyrdom.