A Question for Lawyers.

[TrickyBob]

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[TrickyBob]

Dec 18, 2012 22:16:44 GMT -5 @cse1960 said:

she finds a different boyfriend/fi. This guy is nothing but trouble.

Eh, he's not so bad, he's not terrific though. His ex is legit crazy though and by this point I just feel SO bad that this dude cannot catch a break from his ex. He really wants custody of his kid but his ex keeps landing him back in jail.

I don't understand how this woman can keep dragging him back for more money and/or make the decision to send him to jail. Isn't that the judge's job?

[hisno1girl]

Dec 18, 2012 22:07:12 GMT -5 TrickyBob said:

A friend of mine is engaged to a man who has a daughter.

Her FI's ex is in a relationship with an informant for the police, he is still a druggy but supposedly he cannot be touched because his arrangements were to inform the police of drug activity. He beats his girlfriend and possibly beats the numerous children they have in a 2 bedroom home.

CPS has been called on them but the only thing they did was make sure each kid had their own bed.

My friend's FI pays child support but he owes some back child support, he has been having a hard time getting a job but just got one and started making payments again. He has shown the courts proof that he was looking and has one. His ex keeps taking him back to court constantly to get more and more support money from him.

Recently, he just got sent back to jail for 90 days because the JUDGE told his ex that it was up to her if he went to jail or not, so she chose jail.

Is that legal in any way, shape, or form? And how would one go about getting this little girl out of this situation and into custody of my friend and her FI? They have been fighting this for 5 years.

Will DD later, please don't quote.

ETA: Obviously I know you cannot give specific advise but where the heck does she turn to now?

Your friend should turn around and run like Hell as far away as she can.

Why would she want to be with a man with that much drama in his life?

That's all I'm saying about that.

[TrickyBob]

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[sonrisa]

Dec 18, 2012 22:18:23 GMT -5 TrickyBob said:

Dec 18, 2012 22:16:44 GMT -5 @cse1960 said:

she finds a different boyfriend/fi. This guy is nothing but trouble.

Eh, he's not so bad, he's not terrific though. His ex is legit crazy though and by this point I just feel SO bad that this dude cannot catch a break from his ex. He really wants custody of his kid but his ex keeps landing him back in jail.

I don't understand how this woman can keep dragging him back for more money and/or make the decision to send him to jail. Isn't that the judge's job?

No. She needs to find a different boyfriend. She has all the red flags. The complaints about the ex are just red herrings. Stop ignoring them.

[thedutchgirl]

I think he's telling her stories. That aren't true.

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He isn't that nice. I guarantee you. He just has a firm lid on his crazy for now and/or looks less crazy by comparion.

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Dec 18, 2012 23:47:34 GMT -5 sonrisa said:

Dec 18, 2012 22:18:23 GMT -5 TrickyBob said:

Eh, he's not so bad, he's not terrific though. His ex is legit crazy though and by this point I just feel SO bad that this dude cannot catch a break from his ex. He really wants custody of his kid but his ex keeps landing him back in jail.

I don't understand how this woman can keep dragging him back for more money and/or make the decision to send him to jail. Isn't that the judge's job?

No. She needs to find a different boyfriend. She has all the red flags. The complaints about the ex are just red herrings. Stop ignoring them.

This is a unanimous opinion from the nest bench. And it can't be appealed.

[EmilieMadison]

Dec 18, 2012 23:47:46 GMT -5 thedutchgirl said:

I think he's telling her stories. That aren't true.

Fucking word.

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No need to be a lawyer to know this guy sucks.

What did you think a lawyer would say? LOL.

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(}) I believe she thought you needed some expertise in game theory to keep those facts straight.

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YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!