Post by fussbucket on Dec 21, 2012 13:12:13 GMT -5
Dear god how has this idiot man child convinced a smart, adult woman that the shit sandwich he's serving up day in and day out is actually a chocolate torte.
Your H makes me so angry. It makes me angry in behalf of civilized society that worthless POSes like this are not only not fully ostracized by intelligent life on this planet but are instead rewarded with reproductive opportunities.
Starries, you are in a hole. A deep, dark hole. PUT DOWN THE FUCKING SHOVEL.
If you don't think that he knows a token gesture like the stocking suffers was going to make you feel guilty and keep things civil until after Christmas, you are fooling yourself. He's playing you like a fiddle.
I wish you were more angry!
I can't ditto this hard enough. He knows you and knows you'll respond positively to his guilt-inducing actions. At some point you have to stop playing to type and do something different. He's manipulating you and you're letting him.
Post by starrieskies on Dec 21, 2012 18:17:12 GMT -5
Just wanted to say thank you go you ladies! You are absolutely right, he is maniplulating me and I am allowing him to... again. It's never going to stop unless I do something about it.
I also really appreciate the list idea. I'm going to do that. I think it will be nice to have a visual of the reality of our situation when I feel weak.
I just found out that I don't have to work on Monday, so I wanted to make sure that I said thank you, and Merry Christmas to all of you. I hope you have an amazing day with all of our families!